I have these 3 friends that always stab me in the back all the time. If i say one thing to one they go tell the other and if then they will be like why were you talking about me...then when im not in school they talk about me....and they all run up to me and tell me who said what im sick of it what do i do?
2006-06-07 09:50:46 · 9 answers · asked by brittany_glid1890 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Get rid of them. You don't need friends like that. I had people like that in high school too. they're jealous of you and the earlier you do something about it, the better it will be.
It can only get worse. Real friends will protect your interest.
2006-06-07 09:55:08 · answer #1 · answered by Tee jay The Nigerian Goddess!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well have u ever thought about them not being ur real friends...i mean real friends don't do that and they would really understand. besides if they were ur real friends u probably wouldn't be talking about them behind their back...i have never had to talk about any of my friends behind their back and i guess it's cuz they really r my true friends. if i were u i would start hanging out with some of ur other friends who really understand you and who won't back stab u. eventually ur 3 friends will get the picture that u've had enough with the back stabbing once u stop hanging with them as much. they might change...but they might not. good luck and i hope u find some real friends who don't back stab u.
2006-06-07 17:00:00 · answer #2 · answered by serendipity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd find new friends. Unfortunately it sounds like you're in high school so it probably won't change much until after you graduate... Sorry. In the mean time try making friends in a church youth group, by volunteering at a charity or some other worthwhile cause so that you find friends who have a positive view and won't be amused by the blather they are passing along.
2006-06-07 16:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by byhisgrace70295 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have that same problem too. Though the reason may not be the same as yours, i just ignore them to the best of my ability. I know sometimes you just want to clunk heads together but in this case i think that patience is the best policy. ITs like the old saying you can run but you cant hide. So just turn and face it or tell them to stop all this crappy nonsense of backstabbing. Or if you want it to stop and your willing to do anything then i would think that you should ignore them and hang out with other people. If they start spreading rumors about you for that then you can ignore them because its what you think of yourself that matters.
2006-06-07 16:56:05 · answer #4 · answered by Cameron F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you find better friends one day and tell your friends how you feel
2006-06-13 11:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you call them friends, with friends like that who needs enemas. You should call them acquaintances, and find a real friend who doesnt backstab, gossip, or judge you.
2006-06-07 16:54:28 · answer #6 · answered by thale138 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for new friends.
2006-06-07 16:54:11 · answer #7 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them as long as you think that you are not saying or doing anything to hurt them..that is my opinion..
2006-06-07 16:54:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose them ALL!!!!!!
2006-06-07 16:56:04 · answer #9 · answered by Henk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋