my girl friend has been wanting to get a boob job since she was 18 . i have tried to convence her i am happy with what she has .. but she thinks it will give her more self esstem. she said a girl at her work has them an they are all perky an nice .. is their any other way to make them bigger with out surgery so she will be happy with her self??
2006-06-07 09:47:05 · 6 answers · asked by countrysmartcitybound 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she's insecure now, getting breast implants are not going to make her any better. No, she shouldn't get a boob job and it's good that you're being supportive that she should be herself. She should try going to a counselor or just give it to God. No get implants. She needs to realize that she's great the way she is and if she does get implants, it may backfire on her and she may drop her self esteem lower. People will pay attention to her for the wrong things and that can make a person feel worse.
2006-06-07 10:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by voice_of_truth_777 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If she's not happy with herself bigger boobs won't do it. If she's a happy well adjusted person but just not happy with her appearance she should see a therapist before she sees a plastic surgeon to make sure she's doing it for the right reason. You said since she was 18...how old is she now. If she's 20 maybe she should wait until she knows herself better.
2006-06-07 10:10:25 · answer #2 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is happy with it , let her do it.But beauty does not really lie in artificiality.It is skin deep.Getting a boob job is not all rosy.The transplants have to be checked, changed etc. and one has to be in touch with da docs on a regular basis.If the surgery is not done properly, it gives ill shaped boobs for life.Plus the threat of breast cancer cannot be ignored.I think instead of wasting her time on lowering her own self esteem abt her boob size, she should concentrate on the more concrete issues of life.
2006-06-07 10:11:30 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥ ĎᵲέӚϻ_ῬѓїЍϚ€$Ṧ ♥♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should go and get counseling before getting a boob job. If she is unhappy with herself it might be due to some other issues inside of her. Many people get cosmetic surgery to make themselves feel better and after it's done they are still just as unhappy as they were before.
2006-06-07 09:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it makes her happy then she should do it
2006-06-07 09:59:26 · answer #5 · answered by hotwheelswd31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants too let her..
2006-06-07 09:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by wild_and_ready07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋