There's an old saying that says "Every good for nothing woman was made so by a good for nothing man." If believe that statement can apply to men as well, so don't accuse me of being sexist. I'm just saying that woman who are not good to men, probably have had some bad experience that makes them that way (and vice versa).
As for why some women expect so much, I think that probably goes back to the idea that a man is supposed to take care of a woman. I know it is very old fashioned, but for some women, it still applies in these modern times. Even women who want to be independant, hold down a job, and break free of the "traditional housewife" stereotype, may still expect their partner to take care of them. In many cases it is still socially expected that the man make more money, be able to provide for the family, and do all the things to take care of a woman, even if she can do it for herself.
And finally, the same thing applies to why some women give so little. It falls into the opposite side of the spectrum. Women have gone out and gotten full time jobs. They are being successful and working harder outside the home. Many women spend less time teaching their daughters how to "serve" a man, and more time encouraging them to be doctors and lawyers. Women are working harder and have less energy to play "Martha Stuart" when they get home.
However, it is not entirely the fault of women who are trying to advance themselves. Men are just as much to blame. I have known men who do not believe it is their job to take care of a woman. They expect their women to get the kids ready in the morning, work a full time job, pick the kids up, do the laundry and dishes and have supper on the table when the man gets home. At the same time that some men are encouraging women to work outside the home, they are still expecting a woman to do all of the housework and child rearing.
We simply live in a complex and stressful age where it is difficult to balance out the needs of both partners in a relationship. Usually, both partners are to blame in some way.
My suggestion, make a list of what you expect from a woman and what you expect from yourself. If your side seems a little light, than maybe she is right to expect so much from you. If her side seems light, perhaps you should discuss the subject with her. Communication is the key to any successful relationship.
2006-06-07 17:02:14
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answered by Ell 4
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There are many reazons, first of all becuase a lot of men are only useable for the women for sex, for all the remaining things they (not all of them) use to be lazy and unresponsible.
Other reazon is becuase the women feel that they have been overpowered many many years so they are a little bit angry.
But at the same time the women are very demanding, they want a inteligent, rich, good worker, handsome, tender, tough, good father, undestanding, responsible, loving, sexy, nice butt and iron penis guy, so many folks simply do not reach all this parameters so many gals are unsatisfaied about them. Meanwhile the men are more elemental for they a girl with nice boobs is enough.
2006-06-08 06:07:55
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answered by Anonymous
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You need to find another type of woman to associate with.
Break the habit of being with women that hate men an give so little. There are a lot loving giving women out there.
2006-06-07 09:23:42
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answered by grudgrime 5
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I'm one of those women that don't hate men, never did, never will. I am just too nice and get s t on all the time. Oh woe is me, I know, and woe is you too. Hope you can find a woman who doesn't hate you or expect too much either.
2006-06-07 09:33:29
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answered by silhouette 6
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I dunno. Women are like that, they expect a guy to perfect in every single way. A personality that suits them to the last detail. A face they like, a body they like. They want a man to give it all, but I doubt any ever think of what can they do for the guy.
2006-06-07 09:23:30
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answered by Anonymous
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Not all women are like this. My wife is not and she does so much for me and spoils me rotten and even dresses sexy for me... Not all women are alike. And you also have to be willing to give alot too and meet your wifes expectations and spoil her rotten too... Treat her the way you want to be treated!
2006-06-07 09:36:18
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answered by Anonymous
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I wouldn't say all just the ones that have been hurt. Any way the reverse of that could also be said it is not a one way street. Both are just as guilty at one time or another
2006-06-07 09:25:51
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answered by Sander 4
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they don't hate men. you just got to brake your leg and throw-up your lungs, that she sees that you are the one. yes some really are animals just take take take especially when they feel unwanted (Jim Morison). I apologize to other normal women.
2006-06-07 09:34:42
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answered by stef 1
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not all women are like it but sometimes women can be stubborn
2006-06-07 09:23:20
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answered by believerchick 4
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All women? If you really feel that way then why don't you be gay?
2006-06-07 09:23:15
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answered by DJ 6
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