Yesterday, my hubby showed me the phone bill. I called one of my guy friends 14 times. He got upset about it. This morning he isn't anywhere to be found.
2006-06-07 09:10:05 · 18 answers · asked by shortybaby2184 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I had the exact thing happen a few months back. My wife got a little carried away talking to one of her guy friends. And phone bill time is the moment of truth. I did get mad, but I may be of the more understanding type. What you are going to have to do is figure out why you talk to the other guy so much. I know in my case it was more that I was hurt that my wife felt she couldn't talk to me. But we were able to sit down and talk things out. What it boiled down to was that she could talk to the other guy about more general things than she could with me. A lot of our talk revolved around the kids, house, school, and things like that. Just make sure you make time for him too. Like I said, in my case I was more hurt than mad. let me know how things work out. Been there, done that. And my wife and I have a pretty strong relationship now.
Chaz
2006-06-07 09:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by Chaz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess the first thing I'd do is think about why I called that "guy friend" and then think how to explain that to my hubby. A successful marriage is based on love and trust. When you love someone, you think of how they'd be affected by things you do. You'd never do things that would intentionally hurt them because it would hurt you. Sometimes issues arrise where we feel we need a 3rd opinion but it usually isn't safe to take problems to a guy friend, it only causes distrust and jealousy.
2006-06-07 16:35:04 · answer #2 · answered by poofgirl67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't blame him, he is probably some where trying to sort things out in his head and trying to deal with this problem without blowing up at you. You need to figure out why you need to call some guy who isn't your husband 14 times in a month because that isn't good for a relationship.
2006-06-07 16:19:29 · answer #3 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may think that he is jest a friend but this guy want a piece of your honey bun. Calling 14 times also said that your where desperate to call him. No wonder your man is no were to be found.
2006-06-07 16:16:50 · answer #4 · answered by carflot22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were your husband I'd be upset too. 14 calls to a "friend" is a lot. Put the shoe on the other foot and when you determine he has cause to be upset, go looking for him and hope you find him.
2006-06-07 16:14:58 · answer #5 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would put in as much effort as you did in calling your guy friend as you do in finding your husband. You need to make things right, and if your husband isn't comfortable with you talking to your guy friends then you need to really consider his feelings. You do have to say you're sorry and mean it.
Good luck
2006-06-07 16:15:57 · answer #6 · answered by Whitney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you are sorry and don't do it anymore...why are you calling your guy friends anyway? You are married. Once you are married, if you want to avoid problems, your "best guy friends" are now acquaintances. Your husband needs to be first. If you want the marriage to last you shouldn't have guy friends that you just talk to all the time...it isn't smart.
2006-06-07 16:16:39 · answer #7 · answered by teetee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What type of relationship do you and these guys have. I have guys friends, but my husband know each and everyone of them. You hubby must of felt like you weren't being honest with him about something. Talk with him girl, that's your man. Good Luck!
2006-06-07 16:24:34 · answer #8 · answered by MrsJFive 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why were you calling your guy friend 14 times???what if he were calling his girlfriend 14 times. How would you like that.. I have to side with him.
2006-06-07 16:15:28 · answer #9 · answered by JAYNE C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call your guy friend and ask him what to do.
You did it fourteen times, once more wouldn't hurt.
Plus, you'll have a nice round number- 15.
2006-06-07 16:16:58 · answer #10 · answered by highlander323 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋