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my scenario:
I have been in a very BAD accident
followed by a divorce within 3 months.
my reputation has gone down

i can not secure a full time job,
i make enough money to eat n breath

my family is morally obliged NOT to turn me to the streets

do deserve a second chance , or suicide ?

2006-06-07 09:00:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities Other - Arts & Humanities

20 answers

You need to give yourself a second chance and talk to your family about your feelings, if possible. If talking to your family about your feelings is not possible, check out this site:

http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/

2006-06-07 09:05:58 · answer #1 · answered by randylucentphilosopher 4 · 0 0

interesting... I suppose if you think you're a nut then you are. Don't let anyone tell you what you are.

Now as for suicide, not exactly the best idea. See you can kill yourself, but then they WILL think you're crazy if they don't already. And it solves nothing, because even dead you won't feel healed or anything for that matter. Why die, when you can suppress all feeling in life?

Maybe try meditation. You might feel more relaxed, so that if you happen to snap at people now, then you won't as much, and you might be able to be more like yourself.

Now, the reason you may be feeling like a nut is because you've been through some trumatic events. Give yourself time too cool off. Like I said, meditation. look it up, research it. Don't kill yourself, just because you're blind folded and can't see the light. Take the blind fold off.

2006-06-07 16:06:31 · answer #2 · answered by Car Car Vroom 2 · 0 0

First, your family IS NOT morally obligated to you. If they feel that you are a threat to the family or a free-loader or for no reason at all, they can kick you out.
Second, what was the accident? How did it have anything to do with your divorce?
Third, contact your local employment agency. They are there to help.
Fourth, to commit suicide would just prove to your family that you were mentally unstable, so you would be proving them right.

2006-06-07 16:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by i_am_the_dida 5 · 0 0

you are nut if you try to prove any thing to any one, to the hell with them. you can live alone like me, keeping the hope some day you'll meet some one. suicide is a very good back up plan, it doesn't make every thing worse, it's the ultimate relief, you'll meet god and ask it all the question you have, better than yahoo. the problem with it is you will leave this world to George w bosh to live in it and enjoy it, that sucks! i prefer to hang on may be i will get a chance to change the universe. you might think I'm a worst nut case than you are, well, to the hell with you, i don't care what you think! see! that's better!

2006-06-07 16:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well first show them that you can be responsible enough to pick yourself back up. Work on getting a job some more and more importantly, keep it. Everyone deserves another chance, and suicide is never the answer. You're never going to accomplish anything with suicide. Just keep on trying. What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. GOOD LUCK WITH EVERYTHING!!!!!!!

2006-06-07 16:09:07 · answer #5 · answered by peek a boo 2 · 0 0

Everyone deserves a second chance...and if you are contemplating suicide I seriously believe you need to rethink every possibility and the consequences of that action...you're family will forever blame themselves for that decision...and i'm sure you don't want that

2006-06-07 16:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by caribeanswimer 3 · 0 0

Get over the Divorce!

Be a man and move on with your life. Suicide is not an option!!!

2006-06-07 16:11:31 · answer #7 · answered by heatseaker 2 · 0 0

let me just say this first. SUICIDE IS NEVER THE ANSWER! if anybody is nuts its ur family. just because ur struggling doesn't mean that ur crazy. everybody has problems but u just have to learn from them. i think u deserve more than a second chance. Hope i could help!

2006-06-07 16:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by Hopeicouldhelp 4 · 0 0

It's not funny to joke about suicide. Bad things happen to all of us. You need to hang in there and things will turn around for you. You will get your second chance. HANG IN THERE.

2006-06-07 16:04:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

welcome to the real world life's the shits deal with it commit a felony you'll go to prison you'll find someone to love you there at least your rear or your mouth you get three square meals a day, cable tv, free gym,a bed with a roof over it , i hear rumors that they even have free education oppurtunities that's alot more than you get out in the real world you have hopefully work your as s off at a job were no one appreciates you get paid s hit to live paycheck to paycheck just to pay bills and let some as shole named uncle sam take his cut off your as s

2006-06-07 18:11:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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