what should i do?

Question

my brother doesnt like my boyfriend, i love my brother, but i really like my bf too, my brother thinks my bf only wants in my pants. what should i do?

thanx for all the answers so far, did i mention thet my brother is over-protective, he doesnt even like talking to my bf! my bf is a good guy i dont think he try to make me do anything i dont want to. i need a guys advice.

Answer 1

Depends how close you and you're brother are. On one hand you're brother feels that he needs to protect you and so therefore any man would be trying to get into you pants in his eyes. So has he said this before? On the other hand he could see what guys are thinking as he is one, so maybe he's just saying what he see's. Major thing is though, I understand that you love you're boyfriend, but you're brother will be with you forever, so is this guy worth it?

Answer 2

Sit down with your brother and have a serious talk with him. Tell him how you feel about your boyfriend and ask that he trusts you to be making the right decisions. It's normal for siblings to watch out for each other, but sometimes they go a little overboard.

My younger brother is dating this girl that I can't stand, and unfortunately it has come between us so we're not as close anymore. He sat down and talked to me - and told me how much she means to him. It helped because I started to see things from his view so right now I'm working on cutting his girlfriend some slack and trying to be nice - because I really don't want to lose my brother's friendship.

Keep that in mind when you talk to him. I hope this helps - Good luck.

Answer 3

I know how that is, I am the oldest brother in my family and don't want to see my sisters mistreated. I think the best way is to find out if your brother is right or not. If your b/f is pushing sex, then that is what he wants, however, if he doesn't, that means that he respects you. I would just keep doing what your doing but remember these words. Family can also see things that you cannot, that is why they say that love is blind sometimes, but in reality, true love isn't blind.

Answer 4

Your brother might be right about you bf - your brother is just looking out for you. Talk to your bro and tell him you aren't going to do anything stupid and you really like your bf. Tell him that you would appreciate it if he would at least act civil to your bf when he is around. Just let him know that you are responsible and you appreciate him looking out for you, but that you need him to at least be civil and maybe even one day like your bf.

Answer 5

who do you know more your brother will always be your brother but how do you know that one guy will be your bf the rest of your life
go with your heart though but remember you can most likley always trust your brother.

Answer 6

Your brother is just worried about you...let him know that you appreciate his concern, but you will decide on your boyfriends worth...also consider that he may see or know something about your boyfriend that you don't and he is hoping you'll end it before you get hurt.

Answer 7

Have your brother and boyfriend have fun together, play baseball, golf, something outside.

Answer 8

u should still luv ur bf...and ur bro..just spend time with ur bro....and talk to him and tell him how much u like ur bf....and u should talk to ur bf and ask him if only why he wants to go out wit u is cuz..he wants to get in ur pants then dump him!well hope i help!!!!best wishs to u!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 9

have your boyfriend and brother sit down and talk

Answer 10

have them hang out or talk to your brother about it