I feel so strongly for my bf and I can't see myself without him (In a realtionship). I know there is so much to consider but I just want to know Is 20 too young, to want to be married?
2006-06-07 08:09:11 · 8 answers · asked by Please ease my pain 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you are both mature enough then no it's not to young. Just remember, you are suddenly an adult. Everything you do/don't do effects you spouse. You can't be selfish and be in a good marriage. My husband and I married when we were both 19 and have a wonderful marriage and we are expecting our second child this Christmas. It's a big decision and not enough people respect their vows. Just remember that when you say vows you promise to "forsake all others" and to be together "until death do you part". Take your vows seriously and make sure he does too. Good luck!
2006-06-07 08:37:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope DO NOT get married at that age. I am speaking from personal experience. Your mind will change when you turn 25 and then when you turn 28 or 30. Marriage is a big big decision dont make is a big mistake. Your feelings at 20 are geared more by emotion and passion rather than any pragmatic motives. But marriage should be driven by both romance and MORE practicality. At then end you will thank me.
2006-06-07 08:25:55 · answer #2 · answered by Ryan W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is only a number, but what's more important is the maturity level of both of you. We always feel strongly for our significant others when involved in a relationship. But fear of life without them should be no reason to accelerate marriage plans. (I'm not saying that's your intent necessarily). A previous answerer suggested to wait until you're both well educated and rooted financially, which is a nice thought, but if you're always waiting to be rooted financially, so many people would never make it to that point! Proceed with caution is my own best advice. If it ever happens that the relationship goes sour, it's MUCH easier to break up than it is to divorce. But I hope that you'd never have to experience either. Good luck with your situation!
2006-06-07 08:23:29 · answer #3 · answered by loving father 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. I met my husband when I was 19 and we got married when I was 22. And we are still very much in love. I don't know what I would have done if I would of listened to everyone that was telling me that I was too young, because I would of lost him and regretted it everyday. So go ahead and be HAPPY, because after all that is all that matters. I wish you the best!
2006-06-07 08:17:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the two of you. How long have you two been together? Are you financially able to provide for yourselves? Most importantly be aware that if there are any problems or behaviors that bug you right now in the relationship, they will not be fixed by marriage, if anything these problems become magnified and get worse.
2006-06-07 08:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by thaihorse77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i don't think .Some my friends got married at 18.
2006-06-07 08:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by Jenna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if you are sure without a dout this is the person you want to be with through thick and thin.
2006-06-07 08:16:00 · answer #7 · answered by shayla h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAY TOO YOUNG UNLESS YOUR ALREADY FINANCIALLY SET AND FULLY EDUCATED!!
2006-06-07 08:15:02 · answer #8 · answered by Bruce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋