This usually happens in the middle just when we're really getting into it. We rarely have a problem getting him back up & he finishes with flying colors.Of course I wonder "is it me?" but he swears he's unbelievably attracted to me & I believe him.He buys me sexy things which I enjoy & we're not freaks but no where near boring.And no I haven't gained weight or anything. If anything he loves to "show me off" to the guys that work for him, ect. We're in our 30's & been married 8 yrs. I love him to death & wish there was something I could do to help him but if I ask about it he just blows it off. No pun intended. Please help. Don't be a jerk and write something ridiculous plz.
2006-06-07 08:08:45 · 7 answers · asked by Lakin J 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Does this happen a lot or just every once in a while? If it is happening often, there could be two reasons: 1. age, being in his 30's doesn't mean he's going to lose his sex drive, but his testosterone levels are probably dropping, or 2. he may have a medical condition such as high cholesterol or something along those lines, he may just need to get a physical.
2006-06-07 08:24:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm no longer devout, however I do have heavy sociological / anthropological heritage. If you think the have to "worry" your God, then it is in view that you think responsible for anything, otherwise you desire to think victimized. Most men and women do not worry their God. They love their God. God is just like the best chief. As Machiavelli stated, a well chief have to be each adored and feared. If he's simply adored, then men and women will nonetheless do what they desire towards his needs from time to time. If he's simply feared, then they would possibly not love their possess lives, simplest doing what he desires out of worry of ramifications. If they love and worry him, then they'll do what he desires out of affection and admire first, and out of worry moment. Let me attempt to use a further analogy for God... God, in such a lot peoples' eyes, is sort of a well guardian. A well guardian makes use of two ingredients love and a million facet subject to be certain men and women lead a well lifestyles. a million facet love is unconditional. God loves you unconditionally, in view that you're his production. (Just as a guardian loves their baby unconditionally). a million facet love is for confident reinforcement. God suggests you like to gift your well habits. This is what such a lot men and women name "advantages", "miracles", and so on. Parents do the identical with them kids; supply them hugs after they be triumphant. a million facet subject is used for terrible reinforcement. God punishes men and women while they have got been unhealthy. Parents do the identical to kids. Now, such a lot men and women will comply with a Godly lifestyles quite simply in view that they admire and love God as a result of a million facet unconditional love, and a million facet confident reinforcement. If that does not paintings then they worry the a million facet subject. However, what is "blessing" and "punishment" from God is subjective. Different religions, or even participants, might see anything as a blessing at the same time others see it as a curse. Everyone can see some thing they desire into anything. When a mom hugs a baby, it is beautiful tangible that it is a hug. But, while a individual unearths $five at the avenue is that a blessing? What if it simply permits them to do anything unhealthy? I feel the larger solution to appear at God is that he offers men and women probabilities. The $five is an possibility. How the individual chooses to make use of that possibility dictates whether or not it is a "blessing" or "curse".
2016-09-08 21:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by arruda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know kind of how you feel my husband does that to, He claims its his health with diabetes. We can be so into it then uh-oh, it went down. I dont really know how to get it back up and frustration is not the answer. Some nights i would cry over it, thinking my husband didnt love me enough but i dont think thats the case at all.
2006-06-07 08:14:20 · answer #3 · answered by bruns24cm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pre mature ejaculation? Some men get too excited about the fact that they are having sex with the person they love. He is really attracted to you. So when he says its not you, well in a way it is.
2006-06-07 08:35:19 · answer #4 · answered by R man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, sometimes that happens to me. I am also married and I am madly addracted to my my wife. Sex is always awesome at the end, but at first it's hard(sort of).....Sometimes I sit wondering what is wrong, but lately I've realized that my wife is kinda boring in bed, do you know what i mean ...she just lays there...and forepl;ay isn';t steamy...maybe try doing something that you knbow he enjoys....ask him to be your master keep it interesting in bed ...try oral, that works with me.....
2006-06-07 10:37:38 · answer #5 · answered by stangplayer_bert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a problem for some of us men when our cholesterol [ the bad one ] gets to hi have him see a doc and eat heathier
2006-06-07 08:19:07 · answer #6 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well quite honestly. if somehow we get distracted and some thought pops into our mind. it can casue that. .. he probably just loses focus.. if it happens frequently. then that is another matter.
2006-06-07 08:16:38 · answer #7 · answered by Calvin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋