im 22, and my bf 23. I recently found some porn videos in his computer. i mean he doenst hide them, cause he said all guys likes that and he dont see this is something wrong. Videos was disgusting and i was offended. I dont know how to react. Is he normal? and should i tolerate all that? cause hye really kind and nice guy, but how can like that ****???
2006-06-07 07:49:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im asking, cause he is american and im european. In europe (scandinavian countries) this kind of stuff is not as popular as in usa. thats why im confused. trust me, this makes me think something is wrong in our sexual life..
2006-06-07 08:28:28 · update #1
I think they all do it. If you don't approve of it, tell him. He might stop.
I told my husband that if he has to get his "jollies" by looking at another woman, it was the same as cheating.
As far as I know he doesn't do it anymore.
2006-06-07 08:00:19 · answer #1 · answered by PMS 24-7 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were offended - as you say - then you should consider what it is that made you react that way. What sort of emotional baggage, or lack of maturity caused you to be offended by something that is pretty strait up normal and accepted by most people.
It is of course you choide as to whether or not you want to "tollerate" that - but then it is his choice as wheher he wants to tollerate you being his mother as well. I would expect your boyfriend to choose his porn over his mom anyday. He has a longer, stronger, less judgemental relationship with porn.
2006-06-07 15:09:57 · answer #2 · answered by ***** 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disgusting how.
In general, porn has become a regular part of any working guys day if he is in front of a computer.
Should be no big deal.
But if it is freaky and you cant handle it, then bail. Youre not married.
2006-06-07 14:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by RandallL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all guys have porn. as long as the woman is not getting hurt in the porn then it's probably pretty normal porn. how does he treat u? that's the important question. also, as long as he doesn't become obsessed with it & prefers it 2 u, then it's normal. what kind of porn he had is important 2 get good answers.
2006-06-07 14:58:31 · answer #4 · answered by zodak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yaaa its normal u must tolerate as this stage all guys are use to get desperate & watch those porns. its same for all boys
2006-06-07 14:55:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im making a generalization but don't europeans love sex MORE than americans? thats the way ive heard it...
2006-06-07 15:47:31 · answer #6 · answered by R man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ms. INga, we are all different , I am a female and really ienjoy watching with or without my spouse . It doesnt upset me at all that he would watch them with or without me.
2006-06-07 14:59:07 · answer #7 · answered by belizeigram 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋