my wife doesnt give me as much oral... as i would like. what should I do?
2006-06-07 07:47:01 · 14 answers · asked by heresthedeal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Please just give your wife some room on this matter. Not every women enjoys giving oral. She maybe just not ready. Try and keep your communication open about it and don't keep bring it up to her. Trust me when I say if you do she will back more away then you want. My hubby had the same problem with me. He was gentle and understand about it. And let me make the move the next time. In the long run it paid off really well. I can't seem to stop giving him oral now. He found out I would rather have control over what happens in the bedroom then him.
2006-06-07 13:30:58 · answer #1 · answered by hotmama2047 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From a guys point of view here. My wife used to never want to do that for me either but one day i bought her flavor and i shaved there for her and now she loves it and can't get enough of it. Do you give your wife lots of oral? Women love that too . Try 69 with her sometime. It is fun and exciting and my wife and i love it! Be patient with her and give her time and offer to buy her things to make it more fun for her. I wish you both the best!
2006-06-07 16:05:18 · answer #2 · answered by Fast Steve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think marriage is not based on oral. if it was i would be divorced by now. Every man i have been with in the past thats all they needed, so dont push her into it cause it would only pull her farther away.
2006-06-07 15:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by bruns24cm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are funny......why is oral sex so important?....Maybe she feels that if your pressuring her for it..thats all you want......Maybe she feels like she is worth more than giving you oral sex to keep you satisfied. I hope this isn't a subject that you agrue about......I promise you......you wont win if it is......Oral sex just isnt as important to women as it seems to be to men. And one last thought...make sure she hasnt had a bad experience with it before pushing her any further.
2006-06-07 14:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by lisa46151 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what it is about it she doesn't like and tell her you really enjoy it. Reciprocate the favor too. Women enjoy oral as much as men.
2006-06-07 14:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it and see if shes doing oral on you because she likes to or if she thinks thats what you want her to do its a big difference she might not be comfortable in doing oral sex
2006-06-07 14:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much do you need? Try not to pressure her about it too much. Sounds like shes giving a little, Isn't that better than none at all?
2006-06-07 15:00:07 · answer #7 · answered by lovinlife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my opinion, next time she does, make sure you tell her how good it feels, even during it. Having confidence in doing it the right way, and knowing she is making your feel good, during, not as an after thought, may make her feel more comfortable for future times.
2006-06-07 14:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by tanglewebs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with momof3. If my needs aren't being met, I'm not gonna do that for him either. That's a special treat for caring thoughtful husbands only. And he can't just be nice when he wants something.
2006-06-07 15:04:43 · answer #9 · answered by DJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like my husband. Do you do anything for her? Make her feel good- rub her back, feet, etc? Sometimes women don't feel like they should be the only ones doing. I know I stopped doing it to my husband for those reasons. If he did nice things for me and made me feel good without wanting in return, I would be happy to make him feel good.
2006-06-07 14:57:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋