Why is it that I feel very sad and I get very angry when the subject of my girlfriend having sex with 2 other guys(having sex only 3 times before me) in the past comes to my mind? Should I really take it on her like I do? Should I be mad?
2006-06-07 07:44:29 · 4 answers · asked by bad2bone2212 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Did you expect her to be a virgin? Come on, seriously.
She's with you now. So if she liked their shafts that much, shed be with them. Maybe at the same time.
Just get over it.
This is exactly what I mean when I say that I wonder if a relationship isn't just a license to OWN somebody's SEX. It's silly. You're getting jealous over the past.
2006-06-07 07:47:00 · answer #1 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude... I have had the same problem a long time ago. I can make a suggestion for you. Watch this old movie called Chasing Amy. It will get you over it. And you need to get over it. It will be very hard to find a girl that has never had sex and the older you get the tougher it will be.
2006-06-07 14:47:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you should not be mad. you have a right to feel a bit jealous but you should not show her that you are. she did not know you then and if she did she was not with you then you have no right to be angry. just don't think about it like that, think that you know how to do it right and those losers had nothing on you. she knows she has it good now, those other guys did not compare to what you give her. so no worries man.
2006-06-07 14:49:26 · answer #3 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel. i think of my wifes exs sometimes...but its in the past. you have to just let it go or your reelationship may not work out
2006-06-07 14:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by southern_rebel_10805 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋