Ihave over 30 years of marriage, But we need something diffrent, Both are little over weight We need new ideal

Question

30 years of the same thing oral sex and then intercourse.

Answer 1

Aspenlady, I can see where that can be boring, suck, blow, suck, blow, push, pull, push, pull, ooooh that feels so good, etc, etc, and sometimes faking orgasm, sometimes (if your lucky) not.

Of course you mentioned your weight so that may be a problem, why don't both of you join a gym and exercise together, maybe the sweating and pain will turn you on.

Try dressing up in fantasy outfits:

Nurse
Cheerleader
Catholic schoolgirl uniform
Airline hostess
any other choice

Ask him what he really wants you to do to him and don't hold back, he may have sensitive zones that he does not know about and the same goes for you, experiment.

Bless you for being married for 30 years and still having sex, but don't get bored, get busy and have fun..!!!!!!! good luck

Answer 2

MMMMmmm..this is where the Barry White CD comes into play.. The best advice i can give is first.. to start walking together start with 1 mile..then when it gets easy.. increase it by 1/2 mile..get mentally intimate with each other all over again...then explore a lil more with ur foreplay...if ur man can't get u 2 squirt... he's got work 2 do.Being a Big Man myself I find missonary to be good for starters,but the Kama Sutra has Soooo many positions in it. If he ain't smackin it from the back...He's got work 2 do..Make like High school all over again, in the car, on a boat, in the closet.The couch is always good .Shytttt... watch a porno and get some tips..Don'tbe a prude..Celebrate your 30Yrs together. more than 1time a week wouldn't hurt either. give him a BJ in the car after work..just not in front of the neighbors.You can't light a fire is u can't provide the spark.

Answer 3

Okay. You are more than a little overweight.

You need to take your relationship into sexual adventures with the postive message of getting in shape.

Buy bikes and go biking. Take the bikes into the woods someplace and do it there.

Have some fun with food. Start cooking together. Add some wine. Try sushi off each others body.

Try dancing at home with candle light, nice music. Add wine. Have him do you over the sofa or chair.

Go dancing someplace. Have some drinks. Get a motel room.


There are some hotels that have themes. Kinda cheesy, but have some drinks before.

If the drinking is going to hurt his performance. Get some viagra.

Answer 4

try massaging each other's bodies with warm lotions. role play in the bedroom. Have hot sex on the kitchen table or go for a drive out in the country and have sex while driving. have hot lovemaking session in a tractor or hot tub or swimming pool.

Answer 5

try eating celery it makes you let off a sent that makes you more desiable. also exercise together it will give you more energy and more passion