Okay so I have these 2 friends over and they are bugging the CRAP outa me...One of my friends is always rummaging through my stuff I tell her not to to something..And she keeps doing ti..She doesnt ask if she can do something before she does it...THey are just bugging the frikkin crap outa me...So can you help me out here?
2006-06-07 07:17:43 · 16 answers · asked by ɫɦɾouɡɦ ɫɦɛ ɛɣɛʂ oʄ ɫɦɛ ɑvɛɴɢɛd 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They are over at my house right now.....
2006-06-07 07:18:56 · update #1
example of what they are doing: My dad made me a loft and its not that stable I told them only opne of us could be on it at a time and so then they finaly got bored of only one at a time so they decided to go on the two of them...then they started like jumping and screaming and all this stuff...I told them to stop so then they say "Oh sorry I love you!" And then the next minute they are doing it again...And if they dont have something then they ask me to go get it cuz they cant get off the bed cuz they dont wanna....And they are doing all these gross stuff and I have told them to stop and then they just ignore me or say something and keep doing it...
2006-06-07 07:26:02 · update #2
I personally think that you need to have a serious talk to your friend. Sit down alone, and tell her how much it bothers you that she goes through you things, and that it isnt any of her business what you have in your house. so she has no reason to go through your things. If that doesnt work, give her an ultimatum. Either she stops or she doesnt come over. Hope i could help.
2006-06-07 07:25:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I had this problem a couple of years ago, except my friend would come in my house when I wasn't there and take my stuff. I just told one day (you must be stern with her) that if she wanted something of mine to ask. Tell her that is yours and act like a stingy little kid if that doesn't work. She'll get the hint one way or the other.
2006-06-07 14:23:47 · answer #2 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them why they want to be your friend if they are not going to respect you enough to listen to what you have to say.
Let them know that they are "bugging the fikkin crap outa ya". If they don't have anything better to do tell them to just leave you alone.
2006-06-07 15:20:45 · answer #3 · answered by rcr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before they come over i say you lock everything away and keep everything out of reach then when they come over their hands will be itching to touch something, but they wont be able to touch anything....or when they go over i say you lock your room and take them outside...you can play tag or something...
2006-06-07 14:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by Buttercup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to solve your problem by asking the same question in another way and they will tell you there within
2006-06-07 14:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by suraj06k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With friends like that, You don't need enemies. Just say "Get Out" now.
2006-06-07 14:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by Irish 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont exactly like what they do at your house dont invite them over. go to the mall instead
2006-06-07 14:21:29 · answer #7 · answered by shelby m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's your house and tell them that if they want to keep comming over they have to respect and your house...It's your house and its ur rules they should go by..A true friend will respect you for speaking ur mind!
2006-06-07 14:20:27 · answer #8 · answered by GodisLOVE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them they can either stop or leave, plain and simple.
2006-06-07 14:22:57 · answer #9 · answered by ericalsmith2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea there is only one person who is my true friends the other two use me.
2006-06-07 14:20:47 · answer #10 · answered by baby_butt_154 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋