my parents do not except the boy i truely LOVE!! and d on't want me with him so i'm thinking about running away to get married! so i can be with him FOREVER and i'm 16 turning 17 OCT.
HELP ME DECIDE PLZZ???
2006-06-07 07:03:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Travel ➔ Other - Destinations
Most people that get married that early do not have a marriage that lasts. If you truly love one another, it will stand the test of time. Finish school, figure out your plans together, and if your parents realize that your love will not be discouraged, they will probably come around and give you their blessing. Have patience. It's not easy being married...you surely don't want to do that before you get out of school.
2006-06-07 07:06:20 · answer #1 · answered by Scotty Doesnt Know 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now your profile "About" says you are 18. Which are you 16 or 18? Eloping is not the thing to do. Your parents deserve the right to BLESS your wedding. There must be something about the person you want to marry that your parents are uncomfortable about. Trust your parents judgment in this also. Your moving on lust and affection. Love takes time and trials, and being 16 or 18, you have not really tested LOVE. Your parents know more about real love than you do. Trust me, I've been married to the same woman for 47 years, and I still am learning new ways to love her. Time and Trials are the true test. Don't elope.
2006-06-07 14:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by buffoon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is to get married in secret. You should not run away, nor should you elope. Your parents do not always know what is best for you, but they are wise and do have much more experience than you, not to mention they love you. Just wait to get married until you are older. Any good relationship is worth waiting for, and you may save yourself a lot of heart ache this way.
2006-06-07 14:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by marielpantera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't do it... you are so young and yet you might think you already know all about love. Don't run away and marry. And it doesn't matter that you are turning 17 in October.
You have your life ahead of you which you have not lived yet and you will throw it all away because you think you are in "love".
Parents have a way of knowing and seeing a lot of things that you kids do not see.
Hang in there and I know my advise will anger you, but 16-17years olds know nothing about "love" and "life" and "marriage".
Forever is a strong word and nothing lasts forever. You will see if you take this road you will regret it in your near future.
2006-06-07 14:12:35 · answer #4 · answered by Jersey Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do that, wait awhile, you will regret it later, you may say you will not regret it, because you are in love, you need to establish your future first before you think about marriage, I am getting married in august, but I am getting ready to be a doctor, you need to think about the future, don't be hasty, be patient... if you are meant to be together, it will happen, he will stay there by your side thru thick or thin if he also loves you, anyways you are still very young, I am 26 years old, my future is already beginning to be established, but I also have my whole life ahead of me, as do you , think about it if he loves you, he will be there for you. your parents want the best for you, there is a reason why they are adults they have been in the same situation, they know of the problems you will be facing, they want you to have a good future, and a good man. Go to school and make something of yourself, I have been thru many problems, but one thing that helped me the most was listening to my elders, so I pass this good advise to you, and I hope you listen, and understand what I am saying. So good luck to you and I hope that you make the best decision.
2006-06-07 14:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where will the two of you live after the elopement? Can he pay the rent on an apartment? I don't think you can legally get married without your parents' consent. Are you going to drop out of school so you can work to pay for groceries and stuff?
2006-06-07 14:06:13 · answer #6 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should really wait for this because, u wouldn't be able to support urselves. ur parents might be right.
2006-06-07 14:18:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait and your parents are probally just looking out for you. u
2006-06-07 14:05:32 · answer #8 · answered by stormyblythe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋