there is this guy in my school and i have like this HUGE crush on him and the only way that he will like me is if i look like one of those huge celeberties like lindsey lohan. Is it worth to change my personality and life over a boy?
2006-06-07 06:36:42 · 17 answers · asked by Field hockey goalie 4ever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no you shouldn't change over one boy. if he really liked you he would like you the way you are. You don't need to change cause he is insensitive! There is a guy out there for you!
2006-06-07 06:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by _cool_chick_4_ever_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A CRUSH is never worth changing your personality. There are to many fish in the sea. Guys like that will either need to change their expectations or be lonely. Move on there are plenty of guys that will love you for you.
2006-06-07 13:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, i think you already know the answer, if you really felt that by changing your personality and life for this guy would eb worth it you would have done it, no problem.
No person, male or female is worth changing yourself. You are who you are and if this guy doesn't like you for that, smile, nod and walk on. You'll never change yourself anyway, you'll just be hiding the person you are, and that's no easy feat.
Not that i need to tell you this any way hun, i think you know deep down.
Good luck
2006-06-07 13:42:25 · answer #3 · answered by BryonyBeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER!! you don't need to change your personality for anyone..untill and unless ure behavior is really bad. since you have such a big crush on him...i wud try n know him better first, wait a lil and see if my crush still has the same intensity..if yes, be a good friend to him, at the same time let him know, what you feel for him...if he likes you the way ure then all's set...if not you have better choices to make!! goodluck!
2006-06-07 13:42:51 · answer #4 · answered by cherish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never worth comprimising your true identity for another person. There is only one of you in all the world and if he doesn't like you for just that he's not worth the trouble of even having a crush on him.
2006-06-07 13:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its worth it at all u dont change your self for some one and the guy is stupid if he wants someone to change for a person who has soo many problems( celebraties) there is a gu out there who will like u for u and will not make u change i could garentee that
2006-06-07 13:41:47 · answer #6 · answered by friends rule 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no baby girl. you shouldn't change any thing about yourself to fix what he wants. later down the line, what else do you have the change? so, @ any time you need to be somebody else, to get attention. it won't be good for you in the long run.
2006-06-07 13:47:22 · answer #7 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all honey...if baby boy dont like you for who you r and what you already look like.....then kick him to the curb and find another crush........dont let a man take you out of your character for him...if your going to change your look do it for yourself...men r a trip
2006-06-07 13:40:49 · answer #8 · answered by killah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! They never last for ever and plus you have to keep up with this lie of being someone else and eventually you would make yourself unhappy
2006-06-07 13:38:57 · answer #9 · answered by Yondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're kidding right? You are going to try to change to impress someone? LOL.
2006-06-07 13:39:55 · answer #10 · answered by mattd550 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋