2006-06-07 06:34:54 · 16 answers · asked by Nobleman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Figure out why you would say you love such a person, for starters. Give up on this fellow, because he isn't that into you. Then, once you've made sure you won't fall for such abuse again, move on-a better man is out there.
2006-06-19 10:30:11 · answer #1 · answered by bigheadbride 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it hurts to love. If you love somebody and you know they lie, then the whole relationship is a lie. I am sure you are a good person and you deserve the same back from your partner. Obviously he does not feel the same way if he feels the need to lie to you. It hurts to let go of someone you love, but sometimes you need to do that in order to move on and find someone who truly feels the same way you do.Life is too short to stay in a relationship that is based on lies. Don't waste precious time....go out and find that special person who is "right for you". You will know who that person is.
2006-06-21 12:50:34 · answer #2 · answered by allyp51 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know its hard especially when you love somebody and they dont love you back the same way. You dont need to suffer. The best thing to do is Break up,keep away, and dont call. I gurantee this will be the hardest thing you do but its the best. Be mean and be strong. Get it over with the longer you do this the eaisier it will be and the more you will understand you feelings of love and tough love.
2006-06-20 23:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by THERESA T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stop lieing to yourself and begin to accept that this person may or may not love you, but what is certain is that you are hurt by their actions and either you need to talk or you need to start possibly preparing yourself not to stop loving this person but to pull back for the sake of your own feelings and sanity.
Good Luck! You can get through this, with or without your love. After their gone, there's still a wonderful person left...YOU!
2006-06-21 10:49:01 · answer #4 · answered by Bianca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should step back and evaluate your relationship. What are the positive things and what are the negatives. If the negatives out number the positives, you need to move on with your life. Truth is, you can love all you can but you can't make anyone love you back.
2006-06-20 19:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about why you love them, it doesn't sound like they have very many good qualities. You deserve better!! Are you really in love with the person or the idea of being in love? Move on, they don't love you back or respect you.
2006-06-19 12:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by jodi M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love on one side is not healthy. You deserve to be with someone who respects and loves you enough to tell you the truth and who wants to be with you. Take time for yourself and be yourself for a while and the right guy will come along.
2006-06-20 17:42:03 · answer #7 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from them, if you know they lie all the time why would you want to put yourself in a situation where they lie to you?
2006-06-20 13:16:41 · answer #8 · answered by my_lttle_devil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they come back around, tell them to return to their weekend getaway and stay away.
2006-06-18 03:17:43 · answer #9 · answered by Piper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay i had this happen to me i liked him so much didn't care that's how bad it was.1st, i think you should talk to him aND 2nd, why cant you go with him.how do you know he lies. remember if you have second thoughts bout who your with like this maybe its your way of telling your self that your not supposed to be with that person
2006-06-21 11:34:44 · answer #10 · answered by lil_bit_ 44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋