I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. He started talking about having a 3some. Should I be worried? I don't think I could handle seeing him do ANYTHING sexual with another woman.. Is it normal for couples to have 3somes?
2006-06-07 06:29:37 · 17 answers · asked by lixxity 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't think it is normal in terms of the percentage of people who do it. I think you will find that the majority of people stick to one on one encounters for the same reason as you, they love their partner and they can't deal with seeing them be intimate with another. Just tell your boyfriend it is something your not interested in because you love him and don't want to share him. If he can't accept and respect your feelings then maybe he doesn't really love you the way you deserve.
2006-06-07 06:36:02 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 14⤊ 3⤋
Well one thing you should ask is what is his motative for the threesome, is it because he wants to be with another woman OR is he wanting to see YOU and another woman together. Being with two women that are having sex together, is alot of mens' fantasy and a real turn on. Is he wanting sex or looking to make love..... Oh yeah, I can just hear alot of you women NOW.. BUT, there is a difference!!! OK, next time one of you ladies get horny, pull out the vib and satisfy yourself..... did you make love or have sex ???? In alot of relationships, having a variety in their SEX life keeps thing interesting. Experiencing different sexual pleasures, doesn't mean the two people don't love each... Making love and having sex are not the same.
2006-06-07 08:28:11 · answer #2 · answered by awftx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of couples do have three somes but they are both in agreement about it. If you don't think you can handle it, then don't do it. It will ruin your relationship. He'll have to get over it and let it stay a fantasy.
2006-06-07 07:08:32 · answer #3 · answered by cleofox32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very common, most men want a 3some. If you're not comfortable with it, DON'T do it. You will regret it.
2006-06-07 06:39:00 · answer #4 · answered by ericalsmith2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i completely understand. No you shouldnt be worried it's just something that men want to experince for themselves. You dont have to do it if your not comfortable with it. And he should respect you if you dont want to. And watchin your man with another woman hmmmm NO way lol ! I'm just to greedy n selfish with my man. So it's ok just tell him how u feel.
2006-06-07 06:34:51 · answer #5 · answered by one with no name 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not the norm, but not unheard of. Why don't you suggest adding another guy, not a girl, and see how he reacts? Perhaps he will then understand your hesitancy.
2006-06-07 06:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it is truely normal...give it a good thought,perhaps he is only playin around with you so a treesome topic is out of the bag....i suggest u ask him properly n if he realy means it then pls dump him then n there....i dont think he loves you seriously or else he wouldnt even dream of that
2006-06-07 06:33:13 · answer #7 · answered by gail 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd do the suggesting a man thing and seeing his opinion on that? Bet it isn;t so appealing then.. call his bluff
2006-06-07 06:37:47 · answer #8 · answered by prettyfroggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, do no longer do it. If he became in a gang he's basically going to get you in difficulty. stay far off from it. If out %. one among them, then there going to take it out on you and his different chum. Please take my advise. Dan V
2016-10-30 08:56:03 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO, POINT BLANK If he loved you so much you should be the only woman he fantasizes about and the only one who could fulfill his fantasies..
2006-06-07 06:47:39 · answer #10 · answered by Why 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋