i mean you like her personality.. but dont feel that she is your dream girl.. her lookings dont trigger that thing in you..
please explain your answer..
2006-06-07 06:28:31 · 13 answers · asked by helix 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think what your talking about is your relationship is lacking in chemistry. You will have to determine for yourself if you could live the rest of your life with someone that you're not sexual attracted to. How important is that for you?
I, myself will need that sexual chemistry, that passion, that rip your clothes off love. Even though I would love the person for who he and all of his other traits, in the end I wouldn't be completely fulfilled. And feel like I am settling. Is there anything she can work on so that she is sexual attractive to you i.e. loss some weight or dress differently. Or maybe she is the one for you but you just think you're missing out on something.
2006-06-07 06:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by loveNromance 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Marriage is not about love or sex. It's about a lifetime commitment to face life together. Before you get married, don't think, do I find this person sexy, am I in love with this person, does this person turn me on, think instead-
Would I go into business with this person?
Would I trust this person alone with my children?
Would I trust my life in this person's hands?
Would I trust this person with my disabled, elderly parents when the time comes?
Can I trust this person with my financial future?
If I have a problem, is this the first person I will turn to for advice on how to solve it?
Can we work together, synergize and come up with creative solutions to problems?
Do we compliment each other, does this person have skills that I lack, can we put those skills together for the sake of a functioning household and a prosperous future.
Remember, no matter who you think is sexy right now, there will be a time you don't. This is why people get divorced, they think marriage is about love, but love isn't even about love, it's about sex. Real love is about friendship, trust, cooperation, dedication to each other and a common cause and mutual respect. These things don't fade as easily as sexual attraction, and after a few glasses of wine, sexual attraction can appear out of the blue, the other things don't.
Love is what we feel for our parents, our lifelong friends and our children, and it should be what we feel for our mates. If we happen to be sexually attracted to them too, well that can be a bonus.
Of course, if you're so unattracted to her that you're not going to be able to perform your husbandly duty, then don't, because you'll make her feel bad.
2006-06-07 06:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by kaplah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't marry anyone that you can't feel love to. a girl you like to talk to should just stay friends. marriage is something you need to wait for the right person for. you should love their personality and their looks should trigger some want at least. don't marry her unless you KNOW she's the one.
2006-06-07 06:32:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 04:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by cosco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't marry this person because if there is not physical attractions then the odds of you cheating on her increase. Trust me looks DO matter. Good luck.
2006-06-07 06:32:46 · answer #5 · answered by Fer22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wont be a wise choice. Why? Refer to the definitions below:
Girl Friend: a girl whose personality you like. which makes her splendid company for a mate!
Wife: A girl friend you have an amazing physical connection with and want to spend the rest of your life with!
2006-06-07 06:39:52 · answer #6 · answered by suzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me, I married a man that I loved but was not sexually attracted to....I was living a lie and we were divorced after a very short time. Living in lie will eat at your heart. Please don't do it
2006-06-07 06:33:55 · answer #7 · answered by carolinayaya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she is your friend - I wouldn't marry one of my friends
2006-06-07 06:33:29 · answer #8 · answered by Christine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why marry someone you dont love my answer is no
2006-06-07 06:31:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that's why people end up cheating and the big DIVORCE!!! hello did you read your own ?
2006-06-07 06:34:02 · answer #10 · answered by prettyfroggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋