he's 15 years older than me, in his late 40's. Is it normal if he doesn't want to have sex most of the time. Truly, we have sex like 4 times in a month! In my first marriage, my ex was my age 20's and the same. Are all you men like that? Does age matter? He said he would be able to have a normal sex life, but I feel like he lied. He's always tired, his back hurts..so why did he say he could? I should have stayed single FOREVER after my divorce!!
2006-06-07 05:55:46 · 17 answers · asked by Playera 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, I love him. He's helped me a lot since my divorce. I know sex it's not the most important thing, but it is important.
But my true love isn't him, though. It's sort of complicated. It was like a novel that you started to read, but didn't get to the end...I'm still waiting to find out how it ends.. The "last chapter" was that he went to the army and I haven't seen him in 10yrs., but he has visited me 2x and we were unable to see each other.
This should really be a movie some day.
2006-06-07 06:20:26 · update #1
Yes, he is getting old and things will get even worse when he reaches his fifties.
2006-06-07 05:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people say age doesnt matter but it does. your young and have a lot of energy. you are probably not afraid to try new sex possitions and he might be. im not saying his old but im asumming that at that age you dont want to have sex often. honestly leave the guy. not because he doesnt have sex but because you should take some time for yourself. meet other guy until you find one that is what you are looking for. dont stay stuck in one place. seriously go single and enjoy life. if sex if important to you then look for someone who will give it to you. ask your guy directly what his problem is. honesty should always be the #1 in a relationship. by the way. do you love or like this guy?
2006-06-07 06:02:43 · answer #2 · answered by Oreo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you must not stay single for your life this answer is according to your question. Because this is law of nature if you can't hold on your emotions now then you won't be able to hold on your emotion which are going to bug you more harder in your older age. Emotions; you are alone no one with you. If not this then just wait for right one to come for sure you will get what you need. Do not underestimate yourself. Think positive like you are a diamond only the one could get who could be able to afford it. Smile and live your life lively
2006-06-07 06:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years and he's almost 21 yrs. older than me. As me get older their sex drive drops off, and if you live with him it's just routine. And maybe he really has a bad back. If you're having regrets get out of the relationship and find someone who can better please you. Remember regret is a hard to live with
2006-06-07 06:14:03 · answer #4 · answered by princesswheel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age doesn't matter...I've dated some younger and they were not up to it for more than 4 times a month... Give him a chance. Something else may be on his mind.
2006-06-07 06:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by Quietstorm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is ur marriage is about sex or else cuz if u do it 4 time a month at least u have some their plenty of thing to do don't let sex ruin ur marriage cuz their r more serious problem then that
2006-06-07 06:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by tanai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend has me by nine years and he cant go for 2 or 3 rounds. i think it is the whole age thing but why dont you try other tactics to turn him on and take the dominant role with positions that dont ask to much of him and hopefully he wouldnt complain.
2006-06-07 06:00:39 · answer #7 · answered by princesaa20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about all older men but Hugh Heffner is doing pretty good for being so old. Maybe he thought he could but things just aren't working (back & etc.) as well as he thought they would. You should talk to him.
2006-06-07 05:59:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when men get older, they cant do it as much, but when they do do it it last a whole lot longer. For younger men they can do it like rabbits, but they dont last very long per session.
Good Luck
2006-06-07 06:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥Soon to Be Mrs.F♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are like that.However is he doing most of the work some men get tried of doing it all so try something new you work on him he'll love it and you should get it more often.
2006-06-07 06:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by PEACHESCRE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your man has a low libido he is either getting it somewhere else or has a medical problem. If your sure that your man is faithful then you may have cause for concern, at his age he should have his prostate checked regularly.
2006-06-07 06:03:24 · answer #11 · answered by tonafun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋