This girl is my husbands stepsister, who he screwed a long time ago, and now she just won't leave me alone!! I HATE this girl with every fiber of my being, other then killing her, how do I get rid of her for good????
2006-06-07 05:52:30 · 8 answers · asked by Weasel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is a hard one to understand, are the parents still together?
If so that means that family gatherings will bring the two of you all into contact so that would be very hard to deal with but, not impossible to fix.
I am sure you have explained how you feel to your husband and have let him know that this is very hard for you to deal with and if he truly loves you he is willing to do whatever is needed to help make this better for you, For starters you can make sure that when it's time to visit the parents make sure she does at a different times as your family, make sure that she don't call your home because there really isn't any reason why she have to have contact with your husband or yourself.
Maybe if your husband is willing to explain the problem (not in details or anything) to the parents there is some way for you all to work it out so there is no contact.
But, let me say this If you let her know how much control she has over your feelings right now, She is feeling like a star because she knows that she is getting to you to the point that you HATE her.
It takes up a lot of your time, thoughts, and enegry to actually hate someone, You could win this battle a lot more easily if you put her out of your thoughts, I mean how can you hate something or someone if you don't even think about them, Who is she that she has to occupy, consume, so much of you and your time?
Instead of thinking about her and what it is she is doing, Think that she is totally beneath you.
Let me ask you this: Have you ever got a piece of gum stuck to the bottom of your shoe?
What did you do? Scrape it from the shoe right?
And have you ever thought about that gum since? No right?
Well that is what you have to do in this matter with that female, don't give her that kind of power over your life, take back the power, scrape her from your life once and for all.
2006-06-07 06:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by Lil Angel 68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her as much as you can. You can't get rid of her for good because she is your husbands stepsister. Good luck.
2006-06-07 05:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you really hate her? do you feel that your relationship is threatened by her? does she want to chat about your man's technique? Figure out what exactly it is - then change yourself, cause you probably won't be changing her. The reaction she is causing is very strong, and in that respect she is controlling you and you are allowing it. So figure it out, get over it and get past it so you can be happy again.
2006-06-07 06:12:54 · answer #3 · answered by workingclasshero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's harrassing you, you can get a restraining order which makes her stay 150 feet away from you and forbids her to contact you in any way or she will go to jail.
2006-06-07 05:57:37 · answer #4 · answered by ericalsmith2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ban her from coming to your house and sever ties with her. Put an ad in the local newspaper that you have severed ties with her officially.
2006-06-07 05:56:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to your husband how much you hate her, and you probably will see her less and less, but there is no way you could possibly not see her ever agian.
2006-06-07 05:56:07 · answer #6 · answered by buttercupbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat her up and then get a restraining order against you and your property.
LOL
2006-06-07 06:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop letting her occupy so much space in my head...when you hate, you are giving that person power over you....
2006-06-07 06:08:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋