i love my gf so much n she tells me she feels the same way. but on yahoo answers shez actin like she wantz to break up with me n sayz she loves her ex gf. it's givin me mixed feelings and idk if i should try n have her be with me still, or let her be w/ her ex.
2006-06-07 05:46:49 · 19 answers · asked by soccergrl1489 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
is this a gay thing? talk to her, i guess
2006-06-07 05:49:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd talk to her first, calmly explain your feelings and how she's making you feel with the comments on her ex. Be understanding of her feelings and don't pressure her to be with you if that's not where her heart is. When you truly love someone, you never really stop loving them even if you're not IN love with them anymore. It's possible that she still has love for her ex, but doesn't want to be with her ex. If she does want to be with her ex, then it will hurt you, but you will get over her and eventually find someone who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them.
2006-06-07 12:51:21 · answer #2 · answered by ericalsmith2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's ready to move on, then you should be ready to let go. I couldn't see myself sticking around with someone who was pining after someone else. That's selfish and unfair to you when you could be out there looking for a chick that is devoted and faithful. Good luck! Discuss this with your girl, too.
2006-06-07 12:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what you say is true---then speak to her about her comments on Yahoo!Answers. Talk to her before you make any rash decisions. Plus, you don't need anybody to hurt you that's something you can do yourself. You know your girl better thatn I do.
2006-06-07 12:50:10 · answer #4 · answered by gzmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's kind of tough, isn't it? Let her know you want her, but don't sell yourself out. You deserve someone who wants you and only you, just as she does. If she can't honor that with you, let her go. I wouldn't dump her, but get her to make a decision. Limbo sucks, don't let her do that to you.
2006-06-07 12:51:00 · answer #5 · answered by jenntwoenns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both need to sit down and calmly talk but she also needs to give you a striaght answer where the relationship stand with no head games
2006-06-07 12:51:34 · answer #6 · answered by precious52801 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on if ur even askin this question u should know the answer. in a relationship there shouldnt be any questions. first talk to her, after that u will know what to do.
2006-06-07 12:49:52 · answer #7 · answered by Balletbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like shes no good at all so I would say dump her and see how hurt she is!
2006-06-07 12:49:27 · answer #8 · answered by acoll0725 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know how u feel and talk to her about it and make a plan on whats going to happen
2006-06-07 12:49:06 · answer #9 · answered by andre g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she still likes her ex iant trying to be **** up but its true cause i still want to be with my ex boyfriend and i like to talk about him so u should let her go cause she still want to be with her ex and forget about her and keep going with ur life
2006-06-07 12:52:13 · answer #10 · answered by chiquita_1338 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her straightaway !! say " do you really love me and wanna be with me or you are still in love with your ex and still thinking about "her" and wanna be with "her" ?? " ... don't be afraid to know the answer... i know it may turn out to be so hard to accept or believe ... it may hurt ... but it will be the truth !!
2006-06-07 12:51:06 · answer #11 · answered by need to know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋