2006-06-07 05:36:54 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
have anal sex
2006-06-07 05:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a question if you want to try - not what other people say.
The most important - it must be done right!!! The worst is if no lube is used - never try it without lube!
The second most important thing - go for it slowly. Let him gently put his finger in there - very slowly. And tell him to stop if it hurts and wait. After a few seconds, you can tell him to continue.
After he was able to put a finger in there, tell him to move it in and out - it shouldn't hurt. Tell him to move it around inside - a bit. And then tell him to try two fingers. Repeat the same with two fingers.
And only then try with the real thing - and lots of lube and a condom! And let him start very slowly.
That's how they say people should do it on Discovery Health.
But the most important is if YOU want to try it - not him!
2006-06-07 06:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by Nick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't tried it, then why are you saying no? Do some research on the web and make sure he does too and then you can see if you like it. If you find you don't like it, then tell him no. Why not try something before you say no?
If you are insistent on not doing it you can try reverse psychology by buying a dildo and asking him if you can put it in his a*s. This may make the point moot. Be sure and buy the dildo first and use it as a visual aid. Shake it alot to make sure he's looking at it. Of course, if he's one that would like that, then it could backfire on you.
2006-06-07 05:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by spudric13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not want to do something or feel comfortable doing something than don't do it. If your boyfriend can not respect your wishes than you need a better boyfriend. A man should respect your wishes especially when it comes to sex
2006-06-07 05:39:43 · answer #4 · answered by butterflykisses427 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fail to understand the attraction to anal for any guy. There are FAR too many other things you can do to have fun with your lady.
Tell him to forget it and, if he continues to ask, get rid of him.
2006-06-07 06:06:04 · answer #5 · answered by Showoff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step 1) Buy a 8" strap-on.
Step 2) The next time the subject comes up say "I will if you will" while brandishing your newly purchased toy.
2006-06-07 05:40:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want it then don't do it...If you are not comfortable then don't let anybody change your mind...Your boyfriend should understand that you don't want to do it, and he shouldn't pressure you into doing something you don't want to do...If he really cares about you then he should respect your decision...If you keeps pressuring you then you should drop kick him to the curb...You don't want to be with somebody who pressures you into doing something you don't want to do...There are a lot of guys out there that will treat you with respect and also respect your decisions.
2006-06-07 05:41:11 · answer #7 · answered by cher_214ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in relationships, one party doesnt determine what happens, he should learn to respect ur ideas, know why you dont like it just as you also get to know why he insists on it. you two can then reach a compromise
2006-06-07 05:49:53 · answer #8 · answered by mibaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him 5 dollars and tell him to look up the nearest gay bar.
That's nasty. Too many fun places on a woman for that.
2006-06-07 05:39:34 · answer #9 · answered by conofa_jihad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really don't want to and he really likes you then just tell him so and he won't care if you want to have sex or not but if he dumps you because of that he did not like you in the first place and was just tryin to get in your pants and you deserve better!!
2006-06-07 05:40:09 · answer #10 · answered by HOT LINN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋