but no liuck its if i wait or if i go looking it always seems the men act very nice at 1st but then act like assholes
2006-06-07 05:35:41 · 16 answers · asked by tamisue169 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
STOP LOOKING. That's the best way to find everything. Just be happy with yourself, and you'll find a guy who's the same. If you're trying to hard, you leave yourself vulnerable, and assholes will take advantage. Relax. What do you need a guy for anyway? Use some single time to your advantage while you have it!
2006-06-07 05:41:26 · answer #1 · answered by Beardog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would advise you to be the a**hole first. You are being too easy to get along with or too hard to get along with!
You know which one. I don't have to tell you.
do not let them use you for a doormat, if they start to treat like you don't want to be treated then all I can say is take a deep breath and just turn off the spout of kindness to him. He doesn't care one way or the other.
And if you are the one demanding too much from a guy until he just avoids you or is mean to you to get you to leave him alone cause he doesn't want to fight all the time and he won't be used for a doormat by you, then stop it or the guy you finally do get to stick with you will be such a wimp you will get to where you can't stand the sight of him really quickly!
2006-06-07 05:44:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not just men its women too. Its a person thing. You put on your best facade in the beginning and then the 'real' you starts coming out. And normally its not too pleasing to the significant other.
Look, people are always gonna have quarks. The guy you stay with is the one whose quarks you can deal with.
I'm pretty sure you do stuff that erks them.
2006-06-07 05:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by shakia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men & women are not angels ; because thy are not gods .
so the first step is to understand that . And I want to tell you something important : we live many yaers ; doing something , and at last we find out that we were rong . What's that mean ?
it means that we make mistakes every day , and sometimes the partner could be the right side , but we don't know .
So , be petiont ! human is human , not angel .
2006-06-07 05:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by citizen high 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the way things are. but you have no choice but to wait or go out and find him unless you want to just give up . its not like you can call up a hotline and have a good guy shipped to you. just don' t worry so much enjoy life .the right guy for you is out there and you will find him someday. and if not at least you had fun trying.
2006-06-07 05:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are like that...I theink maybe I'm a little like that, I know that I act weird when I am drunk for sure. Look for a guy that likes you...even if he isn't the hottest. If he likes you first he will treat you well. Best wishes
2006-06-07 05:38:55 · answer #6 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this depends on your age...if your over 18 then try yahoo personals <3
2006-06-07 05:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by Brittany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he finds you or you find him then you will know he is the one for you..So, hang in there Sweetie you will find the right one for you..He could be right under the tip of your nose and just don`t know it yet..Everybody needs somebody..Good Luck
2006-06-07 05:46:21 · answer #8 · answered by tshee70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are trying too hard to "find it". Just relax, give it a rest. When you least expect it, it will find you.
2006-06-07 05:43:38 · answer #9 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you stop looking and give up that is when you will find the man of your dreams! Trust me!
2006-06-07 05:40:00 · answer #10 · answered by vicked01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋