I just moved out of my parents house 4 months ago and I know I should like living on my own and having my own freedom but I miss home so bad...I miss seeing my mom, dad, and brother every day! I didn't when I lived there but now when I go home to visit I just cry because I miss it so much! I love my roommates to death but I just get walked all over and I can't help it, I just can't say no to anyone! When I was at home I had no worries. Going to school full time and working part time is hard, all I think about is how I'm going to pay the bills and pay rent. It's too much for me! I don't know what to do!
2006-06-07 05:33:34 · 13 answers · asked by enjoyincubus295 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hang in there baby girl. i went through the same thing. but it's a part of growing up. hang in there. you'll be fine.
2006-06-07 05:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call home and see if it's okay for you to move back. Most parents understand moving out the first time is extremely difficult - having roommates isn't the greatest either unless you are really close. Still - you were comfortable at home. You didn't tell us why you moved out or what your age is so this is a little harder to answer. I mean if you're 30 or something, I'd say don't move back but if you're still young, see if it's ok. Sometimes we don't know how much we appreciate something/someone until it's gone. It's sad.
2006-06-07 05:37:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well can you go back home?you sound like a very smart person and there is nothing wrong with feeling the way you do.I would talk to your parents and tell them how you feel maybe you arent ready to be on your own sometimes it takes longer for some people to be out on their own.you can go to school and work and if your parents will let you come back tell them you will pay for room and board life is to short and you dont have your parents forever and i know they probably miss you too.im not saying though to go back and live off your parents because it is time to grow up and take responsibility and in the long run you will look back and be a happier and more well rounded person life is a struggle and alot of times isnt easy i wish you luck with this but see what they say and let me know what happens cc
2006-06-07 05:46:03 · answer #3 · answered by readyhead42@yahoo.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the real world.
I does take quite a bit of time to make the adjustment from living at home to moving out, starting a job, and starting college. Each of those things seperately take a big adjustment period, but to face them all at one time can be overwelming.
In my case, I got married, moved 10.5 hours away to another state, and found out I was pregnant (which meant I couldn't work at the job I had set up because it was goign to be safe). Within a two month period. Some things that actually helped me make the adjustments is calling regularly, emails, and pictures. I'm sure after four months you've met some friends and that should help some too. They are going to become more like family to you over time. Not because you're forcing it, but you're going to rely on them more because they are there for you.
Try not to keep yourself cooped up inside all day, that only makes things worse. And if you start to feel like you are unable to cope with it all on your own, talk to your doctor. I'm not one for pushing or taking medication but there are times and cirumstances that call for a little help.
Good luck and everyone goes through the same thing in their life, so remember that you're not alone.
2006-06-07 05:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by SmilingG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you can find a better paying part-time job, but find it befor you quit the other job.
Second go home and vist your fam more often.
Third no one evr said it was wrong or against the law to cry. So don't worry about it cause if your a girl your fam should understand because cry comes easy for us!
2006-06-07 05:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by acoll0725 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you grow a pair and learn to live like a regular adult? College years should be the golden years, the one's you'll remember for the rest of your life. But no, instead you're crying like a baby and missing your widdle mommy. Get over it, grow a pair, and kick some roommate azz! You'll feel alot better.
2006-06-07 05:37:58 · answer #6 · answered by yogabbagabba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 04:19:27 · answer #7 · answered by cosco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be going home every 2months and make sure you spend at least a week with them before returning to your own accomodation
2006-06-07 05:37:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try n go back home n if u cant try n search for some other job where u n get paid more try in some BPO there they pay a good amt of salary.
2006-06-07 05:40:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this should be the best time of your life enjoy every second of it give it some time maybe the experience you gain will teach you not to get walked all over
2006-06-07 05:40:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋