I asked him if he was bored w/our sex life after catching him masturbating in front of the computer. So if he's tiered of sex why would he still masturbate. N I knw he's not cheating we live 2gether n he's always home.
2006-06-07 05:14:54 · 31 answers · asked by lady06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all, guys really don't have any respect for women that shack up with them. You're too easy and he probably is looking for a challenge. He might not be cheating on you in the physical sense, but if he's whacking off in front of the 'puter, he's making a plan with some cyber sl*t. Whether he's met her in real life or not, it's only a matter of time before he's gone. For God's sake, please don't get knocked up with a baby to trap him into staying. That will get you no where.
2006-06-07 05:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What was he looking at on the computer? Ever thought about that angle?
Men are turned on by everything! I mean every thing! If he was looking at some nude pics or maybe in a chatroom with a woman who was talking dirty that would turn him on enough to sit there and get relief all by himself without bothering you!
After all he didn't turn you away when you were in the bed before this event did he? Then I would say he is just being a normal guy!
Leave him alone, he had to come up with some reason after you caught him and they always try to make us think it is our fault when we catch them doing something and confront them with the why are you doing that?
They do the first thing that comes to their minds and try to find a way to make us take the blame for it ! You know i am telling you the truth of it!
He just threw out the only defense he could come up with and that was to tell you he was bored with sex! Yeah right! No man is ever going to be bored with sex! They do the most digusting things with the most disgusting women in the most digusting places and usually have to pay the disgusting women, so no they will take sex anytime you want to give it to them!
My advice is to let it die a natural death and just not bring it up any more, he sure won't I guarantee you except maybe if you say no when he comes to you wanting sex!
Just love the normal red blooded man that he is and knock before you walk into a room in the future!
2006-06-07 12:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he SAY he was tired, or bored, of sex, or did you just catch him masturbating in front of the computer? My husband will masturbate and then still have enough energy to come and have sex.
There may be something else going on. You need to sit down and talk to him about it. Try not to be angry or hurt when you talk to him. You can tell him how you are feeling about it, but if you are confrontational, you will put him on the defensive. All that will happen then is a big fight.
Try to say something like this: "Hey, Bob, (or whatever his name is) I feel like you don't care about me anymore, what's going on. Is it something I can help with?" Hopefully it will open the lines of communication. If he doesn't want to talk about it, it may be that he is falling out of love with you. I know you don't want to hear that, but it may be true.
Try talking, and Good Luck!
2006-06-07 12:15:43 · answer #3 · answered by Evilest_Wendy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, I have had this problem before. My boyfriend didn't want to have sex all the time. I didn't really like sex before I met him, so I wanted it alot. But to make sex more fun and interesting try new positions, try new 'Kinky' things. You can find many websites on Positions You can try, and things you can do with him. Maybe he's not actually Sick of Having Sex, he just wants to try something new and interesting. Try to find a positon that pleases the two of you. Try To make it fun, Have Lots of Foreplay, and just have a lot of fun doing it, try not doing it everyday because that will get boring after while, try to make it every other day or every 3rd day... Maybe every weekend. Because if you get married, and start having sex less and less you two may get bored of each other if you have sex alot now.
2006-06-07 12:24:47 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he's masturbating does not mean he's tired of sex. I masturbate, and I get sex a lot from my husband. It doesn't mean anything. Have you ever been horny when sex just wasn't available, or you just wanted to orgasm without all the work of sex with someone else?
2006-06-07 12:17:21 · answer #5 · answered by sixspdsxdrv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried changing up the sex. Have fun try 4play spank his monkey for him. Let him play with you. All you can do is try new stuff and if that doesn't work move on and get you some from a man who needs so.
2006-06-07 12:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by les a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be bored with the sex
He could be into guys
He could have an online romance
He could feel not as self confident of himself anymore or depressed and that doesnt help with your sex life and lowers your sexual appetitie
All I can recommend is communicating. Try and talk to him about it. You have to work it out by talking....not guessing. Good Luck.
(If for some reason he says it is about you.........it isn't.....it is HIS problem, not yours) xox
2006-06-07 12:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by Girl Goes Back To The Future 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's addicted to porn. After he's done masturbating there's nothing left for you and he doesn't feel like having sex. I would give him a swift kick in the rectum and tell him to hit the road.
2006-06-07 12:17:57 · answer #8 · answered by ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just bored of doing that day after day...you should like try doing different things that don't involve sex...or if he wants to try different things like dressing up as a nurse or as a girl scout....try spencers....they have lots of things to spice up a relationship...
2006-06-07 12:22:15 · answer #9 · answered by Buttercup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to understand that he needs more than what you are providing him.
Try giving him a good BJ every now and then.
That will spice it up enough to where he is not tired of the same old thing.
2006-06-07 12:19:57 · answer #10 · answered by Matty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋