how do i stop faking orgasms and tell my boyfriend nicely that he isn't large enough to satisfy me?

Question

But he is extremely nice and sweet and treats me so well, it's hard to let go.

we have broken up after i told him the truth. he couldn't take it i suppose.

Answer 1

NICELY?????????? Surely you jest.

Has there ever been a nice way to emmasculate someone? Castrate someone, GUT someone, Shred someone.

LIE and get out, YOU need serious issue work yourself..... OH WAIT,,, I KNOW,,,, Choose sterilization. The world doesn't need anymore YOU's in it.

Rev. Steven

Answer 2

Faking it never helps anything, if a guy cant get you off he should know, thats the only way hes going to improve so he can. I dont know about full on blowing him out of the water by saying its his size, but let him know you arent satisfied, and that he needs to find a way to do it. Also, if you keep faking it, your never going to be satisfied, and that will kill the relationship, eventually your going to go looking for someone who can do what hes not. Also, maybe its the best thing if you werent together, i hate to say it, but being sexually satisfied is an important ingredient in a relationship, if thats not there, hes going to have to make up for it in other areas, and thats alot to ask. By the way, size does matter, but he can overcome it if he learns how to use it, poor bastard. Experience is more important, ive always been of above average size, but i was no casanova the first time, you can be peter north and still suck in the sack.

Answer 3

First of all, honey never fake orgasms, then the guy thinks he is doing it right, and it will never satisfy you. You want an orgasm then don't fake one. If you honest think it is the size then have him use a vibrator on you. Have you ever heard it is not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean? I never had a guy that was too small, however, maybe I never came across one. Have you tried new positions, or maybe you are just not attracted to him.

Answer 4

Faking it!? You're a real cruel girl. You sure know how to make a guy feel like crap, don't you. Leave him rather than tell him what you've been doing, as he'd be better off with someone who REALLY cares for him, not just some immature girl that can't even be honest to a friend, let alone her PARTNER. You WILL crush him if you tell him after so long.
Just try and remember next time, truth may hurt, but it's ALWAYS for the best.(If you'd have told him first time, yeah, he would've been hurt, but you'd have been able to do something about it, sheesh!)

Answer 5

Large----Small-----In between SEX IS WHAT EACH PARTNER MAKES IT!
Sex is a biological action for reproduction, consoling great emotional pain or hurt. The natural reaction to stimulation is an orgasm. With humans stimulation is not based on rubbing, tickling, blowing etc. The stimulation begins with the glands in your nose. Then animal in-stint takes over unless control led with intelligence.

Answer 6

Try new things, without telling him it's because of his size. He can still satisfy you even if hes a little on the small size as long as he knows what to do with it. Size isn't everything.

Answer 7

Sister, STOP FAKING!!!!!!! tell him that you're not being fulfilled sexually. It's not always a size issue. A man can satisfy you without size being a factor. It's not the size, it's his experience and him knowing how to work with what God gave him!!!!

Answer 8

Very gently. Even then he might not take it well. Sounds like you need to have some things going on in your head such as fantasies and some serious foreplay.

Answer 9

Out of curiosity how big/small is he hell, Not to sound rude or anything but maybe its a question of you being to lose for him after all the vagina is a muscle isnt it capable of passing a baby is it not?

Answer 10

Sounds like it's time to get another boyfriend. Rather than hurting his feelings and letting him know that he is not big enough.