My parents don't trust me and there for they are very strict!!!! I would really like them to trust me, so how do i earn their trust??
2006-06-07 04:57:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Do as they say. Give them no reason to not trust you. It sounds strict, but you won't live under their house forever. It just seems like that sometimes.
The more you show you are worthy of trust, the more receptive they'll be to your asking for more freedoms.
2006-06-07 05:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by Veritatum17 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Earn it back. If you lied, stay honest. If you stole, don't do it again. If you are just plain disrespectful, Get over yourself and act like you should. Things can be worked out in any situtation, you just have to want it to. You have to want your parents to trust you, and have the common sense to know what will earn that trust back. Most people go through this, the bad times between you and your parents will come and go forever.
2006-06-07 12:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to earn it but some parents are just that way. In our case at home, for instance, I have an older son who was always in trouble and stuff - I SNOOPED in his room and I told him I will continue to snoop since we paid the payment because he wasn't being trustworthy and was being irresponsible. My younger son is a good teen - I mean he has his moments and all BUT he is and always has been trustworthy. I don't snoop in his room because I respect his privacy. Then again, HE DOESN'T CARE IF I DO. Kind of strange, huh? He just doens't have anything to hide like my other son did and OMG DID HE EVER! He even had a girl move into his CLOSET while we slept - she was a runaway (there was a bed in there - sort of) for her. He's 26 now and a drug addict - still irresponsible - unfortunately.
2006-06-07 12:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join the club. no ones parents trust them. Have you seen some of the questions that parents have put about teens on this thing?
2006-06-07 14:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by yellow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents were that way and I felt neglected, BUT
now I am married with 5 children whom I raise myself at home , and my parents constantly compliment me and my choices, SO now I get the praise and freedom I worked for and honored my parents for all those years. I make my parents so happy now and It was all worth it! You can make it through with enjoyable endevers and a job after school. I know you can do it if I did!!!!!
By the way , do not move out! You will regret it!!
2006-06-07 12:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do as your told,
don't go out and do stupid things and get in to trouble,
don't do drugs,
try doing things around the house with out being asked ,
show them that you are grown up sit them down and talk to them,
tell them you feel like your being treated as a small child and that your growing up and need more freedom to fully mature and when they start giving you more trust show them they were right in doing so don't slap them in the face as so many children do
2006-06-07 12:07:32 · answer #6 · answered by rickherr10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OBEY AND DO EVERYTHING THEY TELL YOU. BE RESPONSIBLE AND DO YOUR CHORES. YOU'LL GET THEIR TRUST AFTER AWHILE WHEN THEY REALLY SEE THAT YOU HAVE MADE A DIFFERENCE. DON'T SNEAK OUT OR DO STUFF BEHIND THEIR BACKS, OR YOU'LL JUST PROLONG THEIR TRUST. YOUR PARENTS LOVE YOU AND WANT THE BEST FOR YOU; DON'T THINK THEY'RE AGAINST YOU. SHOW THEM YOU'RE RESPONSIBLE AND KNOW WHAT YOU'RE DOING!
2006-06-07 12:02:48 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Lily♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's obviously a reason why, so regain there trust by obeying them and communicating!
2006-06-07 12:06:06 · answer #8 · answered by Jasmyn C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
earn thier trust buy doing what your told
2006-06-07 11:59:43 · answer #9 · answered by vasqdd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a couselor
2006-06-07 12:01:42 · answer #10 · answered by Tiana G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋