2006-06-07 04:13:36 · 14 answers · asked by jr_whitelighter 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Okay guys, I'm a traditional Malay, which means I dont kiss girls until I am married to her.
I mean is it normal not to have urges in, you know, relationship?
And is it normal for me to find that sex is kinda disgusting? Do I need theraphy?
2006-06-07 04:21:39 · update #1
that is completely natural. myself (tho i am secure with my sexuality, straight) i think that ppl are born with the ability to go either way, since we all have both male and female hormones. i am 17 you may not want to trust my judgement, anyways... it all depends on what you want. its just how we are raised or how we want to go. just follow your heart and do whatever makes you happy. its okay if u think sex is disgusting... i kinda do 2 :S but anyways... good luck!
~Sidney L
2006-06-07 04:18:07 · answer #1 · answered by Sidney L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say it's normal, but it's definatly understandable.
You say you don't have the urge to pursue both, therefore you need to figure out which one you do want to pursue. Think about what attracts you the most. I'm not necessarily talking about physical features, but there is a big difference between man and woman in reguards to the emotional roles that they can play.
It may actually take a few dates, with both sexes, to actually figure out what you want. Which one will make you the happiest, and in all honesty it may be both. In which you have to reevaluate those feelings.
Just take your time, follow your heart, and don't worry about what everyone else thinks. Do what makes you happy.
2006-06-07 04:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by SmilingG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the salary hollow exists for most causes, yet no longer discrimination,. heres an get mutually. of each and every of the ladies I went to school with very few studied finance or economics etc.. issues that ought to have entitled them to larger paying jobs. additionally they did not attempt to get internships interior the summer season that ought to have led to this variety of jobs. I had 3, and in each and every case in straightforward words 10% of the applicants or a lot less were women individuals. the ladies those who were occupation centred in route of larger pay went on to get the same jobs as their male opposite numbers, yet of that small % maximum supply up once you've married. In agencies like this it takes 20+ years to achieve your top earning ability, even with the undeniable fact that it truly is authentic of maximum fields. you need to take a closer look on the figures interior the figures. what positions, and how a lot adventure in each and every case. In business enterprise and in agency the bottom line is all that concerns. Thats the essence of any agency. income first. If a women individuals is significant to an organization then she will be in a position to receives a fee what she advantages clone of a guy. advantages in a loose market monetary equipment ;ike ours ability the most the market will grant. The market does no longer comprehend the version between men and women individuals.
2016-12-06 11:22:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im female 21, and I like guys. Its not normal for you to not be aware of your sexual orientation I dont think, but you should try to be normal if you can. Go kiss a girl or something but dont be gay.
2006-06-07 04:16:23 · answer #4 · answered by geniusflightnurse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just stick to being with a girl. Its not normal to like men, that's gross. Its normal to not want to feel like being with anybody right now.
2006-06-07 04:17:38 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Lily♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre fine. just relax and spend time figuring out who you are and when you meet someone you are really attracted to things will just fall into place, no matter if its a male or a female.
2006-06-07 04:16:43 · answer #6 · answered by Hez 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably only one way to find out. Pick one way and go for it. If it doesnt work out, switch to the other team.
2006-06-07 04:16:29 · answer #7 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for you stay that way don't rush into anything right yet until you are sure of a few things. if it takes longer than you want it to be that's OK to you are not missing anything believe me.
2006-06-07 04:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by mannygoody_2shoes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to decide if guys or girls make you better and then go with that team.....do what your heart tells you
2006-06-07 04:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by reyn09jo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if you like boys you like boys . if you like girls you like them if i was you id just be bysexual then you can have both
2006-06-07 04:20:03 · answer #10 · answered by blackchild454 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋