My ex-boyfriend bought me diamond earrings about 5 years ago. I've just found out that he got married after not speak to him for about 9 months (quick work!) - should i send them back?
2006-06-07 04:02:44 · 23 answers · asked by shipjumper 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no keep them there yours
2006-06-07 04:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Heckno don't send themback. They were a gift. You are still greiving the loss of a relationship. Where he has moved on quite quickly. The marriage probably won't last forever. Put the earrings up until you are over the hurt of losing him. Once you have had closure with the relationship take them out and wear them. Hey you know we all need those pretty diamonds to acceserize outfits. I am sorry that you are still bummed. Don't worry though the hurt will leave soon enough.
2006-06-07 04:07:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He bought U earrings 5 years ago? Y give them back now? They must be some real big diamonds for u to want to give them back now, otherwise they would have been in the jewlery box 2 years ago and forgotten. However they r urs and I am sure he doesn't want them and neither does his new wife. Keep them for urself, and if he has the nerve to ask for them back, laugh at him and tell him to take u to court, they were a gift right?
2006-06-07 04:13:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, why would you send them back. If you send them back you'll only seem as if you're obsessing and are still in love with him. Even if this the case, why broadcast it to him and his wife. It'll just be something they'll laugh at you about behind your back. He's not going to have anything to do with them anyway, his wife is not going to want them. So keep them as a keepsake, or if it hurts too much, pawn them, and go shopping!
2006-06-07 04:14:18 · answer #4 · answered by ScreenQueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The earings are yours; do with them as you wish. If you're more comfortable sending them back to him, great. But you don't have to feel guilty about keeping them either.
The fact that you even ask puts you a cut above many of the money-grubbing women out there. Don't sell yourself short--there are a lot of great guys looking for a woman with integrity such as yourself. :-)
2006-06-07 04:08:52 · answer #5 · answered by twiceborne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have ill-will towards the earrings, sell them in a pawn shop or on ebay...don't just give them to him! At least make some $$
2006-06-07 04:05:08 · answer #6 · answered by Nay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give the newly married happy couple a gift and send the earings to them.
2006-06-07 04:06:02 · answer #7 · answered by sweeetkisses2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No..he is married and has moved on...it's not like his wife is gonna want to wear a pair of earrings that once belonged to one of his ex's..they were a present to you just enjoy them.
2006-06-07 04:07:03 · answer #8 · answered by BOO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. He hasn't asked about them. Why should you? The standard break up rules state that you only have to give stuff back if you dumped him and he asks for it back.
2006-06-07 04:05:45 · answer #9 · answered by teena9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never, they were a gift besides that what most women do anyway, unless you still want to be friends then let him decide.
2006-06-07 04:12:18 · answer #10 · answered by Jason Heinze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep them! He hasn't asked for them back, so keep them or take them to the pawn shop.
2006-06-07 04:04:44 · answer #11 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋