2006-06-07 03:57:35 · 13 answers · asked by Josh L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you have to address the issues that ended it the first time.
2006-06-07 03:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a two way street buddy. Don't push your x-wife in something she doesn't want to do or she will run further away. Talk to her first. Spend some time seperately with the kids. Talk positive about her. Is it smart to get your x-wife back?You can only answer that question. Your x-wife can also share with you that answer. Also ask yourself why did you guys get a divorce. How can you did not try to fix it up during your seperation period before the final divorce came in? How old are your kids? Why is their opinion? Do they want you both to work it out? Does your x-wife want to work it out? Remember keep her feelings in action. Don't be pushy.........you might lose her forever. Take one step at a time. Hopefully she's not seeing anyone special at this time and you have a chance with her. Treat her like you use to when you both were dating.
2006-06-07 11:08:12 · answer #2 · answered by Kathi T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, are you sure she's still single at that time ? How long have you been separated ? And the most important is WHY did u separate in the past ? Accondingly to the reason(s), evolution of your both life...it maybe possible to consider a new life together.
But as for me it didn't work because she cheated on me and wasn't in love with me anymore...so think carefully before going to a new relationship with her that might lead to new sufferings...
Good luck
2006-06-07 11:07:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love her it is worth a shot. But think of the reasoning behind the separation or what caused the split-up in the first place. Ask her out for a brunch & express your feelings. You never know what's in a woman's heart until you try.
2006-06-07 11:02:04 · answer #4 · answered by ~Sheila~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. Sit down with her talk about what ended you two in the first place and try to rebuild a relationship. Don't do it for the kids though, do it because you are truely in love with her, Good luck!
2006-06-07 11:00:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your reason for wanting her back. If its just because of the kids then maybe you are better off being friends but if you want to be with her and the kids then just tell her how you feel. If you sincere then she should take you back as long as you good to her.
2006-06-07 11:03:19 · answer #6 · answered by lady Sin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Oldsoftee's answer .. plus.. make sure you answer the question from her point of view of What's In It For Her
most importantly learn or find out what her language of love is
if you want to know go to this link to find out what your language of love is and her's
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2006-06-07 11:02:27 · answer #7 · answered by Oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her tell her how you feel find out what caused the breakup in the first place. then go from there. if it does not work out don't punish you kids by not being there for them.
2006-06-07 11:02:53 · answer #8 · answered by Jenn M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if she's seeing some one i think you should leave her alone. but if she not go after her you have nothing to lose except her. and by the way id buy her gifts id writ her letters to tell her how you feel evetually shell' might soften
2006-06-07 11:04:08 · answer #9 · answered by blackchild454 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all does she want you back. takes two to want something. and a relationship is suppose to be 50 50.
2006-06-07 11:01:39 · answer #10 · answered by sweeetkisses2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋