should i still be her bestfriend?
2006-06-07 03:51:50 · 22 answers · asked by august_kisses_91 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i already told my mom that she was telling the truth and now im grounded for another week
2006-06-07 03:55:15 · update #1
i was somewhere where i'm not allowed and i wasnt doing anything wrong and she is mad because my other friend likes the guy that she like and he likes her and they might go out so she is pissed off at me for it and she couldnt go see the guy that she likes because he was there and I DONT LIKE HIM!
2006-06-07 03:59:01 · update #2
Now seeing that this was over a guy, you should definitely stop hanging out with this person, who is obviously a jealous rat.. You should play nice with your mom and promise not to lie again, etc. etc. etc. that works 90% percent of the time with mine (but you have to remain loyal to your promise for a while). If you can't avoid getting punished, suggesting punishments is what i usually do. Remember, try to sound very sensible and pained. Chores r usually a good option because that means less work for your mom too. Go with the first punishment that doesn't sound to durastic, but remember, argueing will just get you a worse punishment.
2006-06-07 04:01:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously:
It was probably in your best interest. True friends do the right thing, even when it hurts.
Integrity is a great quality of a friend!
PS - Why would you lie to your own mother? Don't you have any respect for your parents? At least you did the right thing by being honest later.
Honesty is the best policy!
2006-06-07 03:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by Drofsned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen the same thing happened to me growing up, I would get into a fight with my mother, vent to who was supposedly my best friend and she would then go and tell my mom every thing I just said,unfortunately my brother started seeing the beatch. None the less ten years later after trying to have both of them in my life, my mother recently dis owned me. I'm not saying that your mom would dis own you but I think you should cut your losses with your friend. Could you ever confide in her? I think she is trying to ruin you and your mom's relationship.. Hope this helps
2006-06-07 04:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by sexzbich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends. Is the lie something that your mother needs to know in order to protect you? Your friend may have been looking out for you. My daughter's friend was lying about suicide attempts... of course we told her mother. Always be straight with your mom. no one in the world will ever care about you as much as your mom.
2006-06-07 03:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by angelpockets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should still be her friend but you should always go up to your mom and tell the truth about what you did.
2006-06-07 03:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_tasty_nice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't seem like much of a friend to me. The only thing that I would forgive is if she told my mom something that could potentially be harmful to me and that she was worried about me. Other than that it isnt acceptable.
2006-06-07 03:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask your best friend what her Intention was for telling your mom something you shared with her..See what her answer is and decide from there..Dont Be angry when you talk to her, Wait until your both calm. Good Luck!
2006-06-07 03:57:04 · answer #7 · answered by shalita_us 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new best friend.
Then go talk with your Mom and clear the air.
2006-06-07 03:54:32 · answer #8 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really love her than tell her not to do it again but if u dont just say her goodbye but it is hard to find good friends so be careful
2006-06-07 03:57:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She busted you out. Did she do it on purpose or did it just slip out? I would still be her friend, but I would be careful what I said and did around her.
2006-06-07 03:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by randella_24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋