What Should I Do With My (ex???) Girlfriend?

Question

I've known this girl from Brazil for one month. She moved in as a temporary roomate; we got along really well and eventually became intimate.

She told me last Thursday that the only reason that I'm letting her stay with me is to have sex with her. That REALLY insulted me. I'm not a pimp leasing half of my bed for sex, and I wouldn't go out with a s that would take me up on the offer.

Depressed, I came home really drunk the next day. She was upset that I passed out and didn't answer her phone call. We talked during dinner. About six hours later, she crawled out of bed in the middle of the night and slept on the couch.

After a day of her being silent, the only thing she said is "you stunk (she mumbled something in Portugese) and will not change."

She's barely has talked to me in the last four days. The lack of communication has me really upset. At least she should tell me that I'm an asshole and why. What should I do? I don't know if she 's even looking for another place.

Also, please tell me your age, and how many relationships you have had. Thanks!

Answer 1

I am wondering how old YOU are and how many relationships you've had.
And why is this girl you've only known for a month up here living in your place? Sounds more like she is using YOU.
If she's not talking to you and she's staying with you for free, kick her out. She doesn't sound like she was much of a girlfriend or like you have very much invested in her emotionally.
I am in my mid 30's and I'm married.

Answer 2

Wow! Well, I've never dated a Brazilian girl. I knew one once and she was very quick to tell me that she was looking for a husband! It kinda made me not want to be friends with her.

If you really like this girl, you have to apologize, and explain your side of it. Is she still paying rent? If you like her that much, maybe letting her stop the rent would be a good gesture. Not sure, I've never been in this situation.

If you don't really care for her....you could always turn it around on her and tell her that YOU are pissed because she accused you of letting her move in for sex. I guess you just have to weigh your true intentions and move on from there............