Why do they always call it a fatal attraction?

Question

Why is it that when a man (usually married) gets involved with a woman on his own choice and carries on an affair with her and acts like he likes her, but then he gets tired of her and dumps her and goes back to being the family man, that the woman is made to look like she is crazy and stuff. I hear about this often and there are movies made about it. It seems everyone takes up for the guy and thinks the woman is crazy just because she doesn't want to be thrown aside. Why did the man get involved with her to begin with? Does everyone really feel that it is ok for a man to carry on an affair with a woman and then just dump her when he wants to play the "good husband and family man". I think these guys get just what they deserve when the woman stocks them. This isn't something I have ever experienced but just something that I have always wondered about.

We all know that women get more emotionally involved with a man that we have sex with and guys should know by now that it isn't good to just dump someone and that getting into a relationship like that is asking for trouble so why are they surprised? Isn't is just justice?

Answer 1

Married women are probably just as likely to have affairs as married men. In any event, it's unrealistic for one party to a relationship (married or otherwise) to expect the other person not to care and to be hurt when the relationship ends. I certainly would not put all the blame on the woman who gets hurt. The only way an affair can last and be happy (or as happy as possible given the limitations) is for both parties to be honest with each other about it, and to be caring of each other.

Answer 2

i think a man does this because he is bored in his marriage/relationship and wants to try something new and he probably does like her and then the next thing you know he has gotten involved and doesnt know what to do,he was only thinking of himself and didnt think of his wife,kids or the woman he got involved with it is a very selfish act and when he gets caught of course its not his fault its the ladys because she came on to him and she made him feel good about himself please they have all kinds of excuses and alot of times thats what happens the man or woman does become obsessed with the other and it ends up in a mess and then the spouse finds out and it can end up fatal for someone in the end it happens all the time unfortunately that is why it is against the law its called adultrey i personally would never get involved with a married man because i wouldnt want that done to me i have been in past relationships where the man has cheated and it hurts and it is something that to me cant be forgiven

Answer 3

THE MOVIE SCARED THE HELL OUT ME AND I'M A WOMAN. MAKES YOU THINK TWICE ABOUT A ONE NIGHT STAND FOR SURE...