2006-06-07 03:25:28 · 20 answers · asked by Funloving 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honey I'm sorry but no one would be able to convince me to do have any form of sex with someone with HIV or any other sexually transmittable disease.
Life is VERY short and I don't want to chance my life for sex with anyone. I'm sorry to be so blunt but if my husband ever said he had HIV I would get tested and keep getting tested but I would also not have sex with him anymore until I found out I had it too. If I didn't I would not have sex with him again and that would mean he cheated but either way he would have cheated since I didn't have anything before I married him. Well, anyway after that tangent.... I think you should find someone that has it and see if there could be a relationship there... because why would you want to take the chance to give it to someone that you love or care for??? If I had it I wouldn't touch another person again ... unless they had it too.
Think about it..... b/c life is at stake just for the sake of sex! Sex isn't worth the cost of what the other person would be gettting from you.... YOU ONLY GET ONE LIFE TO LIVE AND IF YOU THROW IT AWAY KNOWING YOU ARE THEN SHAME ON YOU!!!!
2006-06-07 03:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by Deanna M9903 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you actually HIV positive or are you just trying to scare him off because you aren't interested in him?
If you are positive, show him the results. And use protection no matter what. You should always be open and honest about your status with new partners before things get serious.
2006-06-07 03:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by Beth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trying to convince him just to get out of having sex...or do you really have it......HIV is not something to joke about so if you are jsut wanting to use it as a scapegoat....don't just tell him know, if he loves you, he will understand....if u are positive, I apologize and you have to tell him..legally you do....show him the results or sit him dowqn and tell him, if he really loves you he will understand...it will be overload for him and he will be a mix of scared and hurt and angry at first but dont force convo with him...at that point go at his pace and let him absorb the info and he will come to you when ready to talk...if he really loves you. otherwise he is not worth it. but you do need to tell him
2006-06-07 03:32:56 · answer #3 · answered by camrondew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You saying that you are HIV positive is enough to convince me.
2006-06-07 03:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by mattd550 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a serious talk with him. No fun and games this is serious that he needs to know what he is getting into b4 you guys have sex. If he cant except the truth you need to be the bigger one and say NO! I know relationships can continue and you and him can be happy you guys will just have to use precautions but he should deff be aware of this before you continue. Good luck!!!!
2006-06-07 03:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by crlynn2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you are positive... there is no easy way. if you really like this man, you need to let him know, there are ways for you two to be together, but in a situation like this everything has to be open and you should be able to talk.
I would not decieve him by not telling him. He will never forgive you!
2006-06-07 03:38:32 · answer #6 · answered by Sunshine_Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to scare you but if your bf is not open minded he'd probably not have sex with you or at worst ditch you...
Wow... this is pretty tough.
If it were me and I love you I'd be with you but I'm not sure if I'd have sex with you (leaning a bit to not).
Wow this says a lot about me.
2006-06-07 03:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by GoateeBoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you have something wrong in tha inside of you.. and you don't want to spread to him.... tell him that u have hiv and that u want him to b protected and not get it so just use a condom
2006-06-07 03:29:38 · answer #8 · answered by angel_devil6288 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him the test to prove the hiv+, and always use a condom.
2006-06-07 03:28:38 · answer #9 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be open and honest vit him.. justshow him the test results.... stop the spread of hiv.. peace
2006-06-07 03:31:33 · answer #10 · answered by Raghu Vamsi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋