Ok so this guy is my friend and he knows i like him but my friend likes him and i know he likes me... that was a mouthful. But i am wondering if he askes me out should i say no for the sake of my friend???
2006-06-07 03:16:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
props to you for being such a great friend. talk to her about it and tell her that you are concerned about this. if it would really bother her, leave the guy alone. no guy is ever worth breaking up a friendship over.
2006-06-07 03:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on how old you are. If you are a teen, if you like him and he likes you go for it. Most of the friends you make in those years will get over it pretty quick and most don't stay close throughout your life.
If you are 20-30+ these friends are more serious but then again, will he be your life mate.
Talk it out with her and come to an agreement to stay friends which ever way the outcome.
2006-06-18 12:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have this discussion with your friend, not here! Sort it out and go from there. This guy is not even a date yet. I would not endanger a friendship over something so insignficant as a date! IF there is even a remote chance that your friend is going to be hurt, stop now, back up, and change directions. Friends are really hard to come by, dates are cheap and easy.
2006-06-07 03:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asks you out then that's when you and your friend need to have a talk.I know that there is usually a rule about dating someone your friend likes. if the conversatio n doesn't go well then let that rule be enforced.
2006-06-18 23:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by Temptation 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off, and if your friend is a good one, she'll back off too. Friendship trauma isn't worth a guy. You'll find someone else!
2006-06-07 03:21:26 · answer #5 · answered by coconut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you think she would do the same for you. If not, she's not a friend worth keeping
2006-06-07 03:19:32 · answer #6 · answered by ashley717 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope! If he asks you out and not your friend then your friend should be mature enough to congradulate you and let it go.
2006-06-07 03:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the guy who likes more you or your friend and whoever he decides , let that person go out with him.
2006-06-07 04:27:58 · answer #8 · answered by diehard25fl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if youre friend is okay with it then go for it but you should probly tell her if he does and ask if she would be alright with it first
2006-06-15 19:12:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take him b4 they do like somebody told me alls fair n love and war
2006-06-07 03:20:17 · answer #10 · answered by Blade_Icewood06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋