wHAT WOULD YOU DO IF AS YOU PASSED BY WITH ALOT OF YOUR FRIENDS OTHER GIRLS WHERE TALKING ABOUT YOU AND i MEAN LOUDLY. tJHEY WERE CALLING YOU SLANDEROUS NAMES BECAUSE OF A RUMOR THEY HEARD SUCH AS bopper WHICH IS A GIRL WHO GIVES HEAD OR rOLLER WHICH IS A GIRL WHO FUC EV. sHOULD i CONFRONT THEM (KEEP IN MIND THEY CAN FIGHT) OR IS THEIR A WAY TO MAKE THEM STOP WHAT SHOULD i DO. CAUSE IT'S GETTING EMBARRASINGLY UNBARABLE
2006-06-07 03:01:48 · 16 answers · asked by curalisiouse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is a hard one for many,your gut wants you to stand up and say something and call them out on their name calling. But like you said 'they can fight' and you don't want a bunch of girls jumping you just cause you didn't like the things they are saying.Rumors can be very cruel in school and your peers seem to listen to them other then see the real YOU. Just remember those words are only words. Don't let them get to you or make your day bad. Only YOU can make your day bad by allowing them to get to you. Show others you are better then that and step tall with your head held high rumors will go away with more rumors, your pride will always remain in your heart don't step to their level. You cant change people only your reaction to them. ;-)
2006-06-07 03:27:15 · answer #1 · answered by ToYsTeMpTer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People always want to talk about someone and the sad thing is that they will never have anything nice to say about a person .If they are just bad mouthing you when you havent done anything wrong then leave them, they will get bored sooner or later. Keep your head up, do not give them the satisfaction
2006-06-07 10:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by destiny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the better, more mature person and let it go. They probably want a rise from you. Some people get great pleasure out of making you feel bad. And if these are your so called friends I think it's time to reevaluate those friendships.
2006-06-07 10:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by SmilingG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them. The more and more you getting upset will give them a reason to talk behind you, Be courageous. Learn how to speak boldly and at a appropriate time and place give them back their own medicine.
2006-06-07 10:08:48 · answer #4 · answered by Bolan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just speak up and tell the truth and what ever goes down everyone will know you'll stick up for whats true...win or lose I don't have a problem fighting for whats right.
2006-06-07 10:17:38 · answer #5 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider the source of their comments. Jealousy. Apparently you have more friends than they do.( I can see why) Ignore them.
That will really get to them.
2006-06-07 10:09:00 · answer #6 · answered by Jimmythekid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would personally smile and say hello to them. anyone that talks about another person is jealous. only you know in your heart whether you are this type of person or not and if your not dont let it bother you. It would bother them more knowing they are talking to you and you are being nice to them.
2006-06-07 10:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by sweeetkisses2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the best way is just to ignore them and let it go. they are just bored and have no life. u are way way better than them. think of it as a way of motivating u to go on with your life successfully. : D
2006-06-07 10:17:33 · answer #8 · answered by anise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to ignore them first. Because all they want is to get to you.
2006-06-07 10:06:01 · answer #9 · answered by exoticprincess1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore it. They'll find something else to talk about soon.
2006-06-07 10:05:54 · answer #10 · answered by mac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋