I'm 30 yrs old and a mother of one, I've been with my son's father for the past nine years. He has proven to me many times his devotion and love for me. It seems as if there is nothing he wouldnt do for me. I'm just not sure I can love him that way. But over the past couple of years we've been having trouble in our relationship. Which led me to cheat and we seperated for a while, ultimately, we decided to get back together "work things out". During that "seperation" I met this man. It's been almost a year since I've known this him, and now find myself falling in love with him. The feelings seem to be mutual. I feel alive and free with him. Something I haven't felt in quite a long time. Now I dont know which way to go, Should I give myself to my son's father and have the "happy family" or take that chance on love and head into the unknown? A decision that will not only affect me but my son as well, which is why it's so difficult. Please help!!!
2006-06-07 02:49:25 · 4 answers · asked by hesluvinme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The romance of the unknown is always a strong attraction especially in light of a long term relationship where you are so in touch with the other person you know everything there is to know.
But that allure of the unknown will more often than not give way to the same feelings of being trapped in a relationship that isn't "new" anymore.
Before you say goodbye to a man who "would do anything for you" and has proven his love to you, a lot of clear thinking should be done. Such a person is not so easily found and should not be disposed of easily. Also, you hear all the time about women who are abused verbally, sexually and physically... even in Yahoo Answers. Are you really ready to take that chance?
Besides, there is a good chance that in the "dream relationship" that you are seeking, you are the one who will be made to serve at the beck and call of the other one will be you. Are you really ready for that?
From your question it is clear what character the father of your son has. What kind of person are you?
2006-06-07 03:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by Bud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to inform you but obviously the family is not happy if you want someone else. If you give up on the one you love you are going to regret it and your family will not be so happy.
If you care anything about your son's father he should be free to find the woman who will love him the way he deserves.
2006-06-07 09:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by butterflykisses427 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing to me would be my son. So if I was you I would be there for him and not worry about my life for now.
2006-06-07 13:03:11 · answer #3 · answered by sixspdsxdrv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello!i am writing for the first time to you an i came from Romania,so i can't wryte so good.i thik you must to listen your heart and to explain to your's children that you can't live nomore with thei father.if you love the man who you met you need to be sure that him love you the same.i hope that you will understand that i wanted to say
and be more powerfull!goodluck!
2006-06-07 10:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by Madalina D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋