I really like him, hes nice to me and everything treats me like a princess but just seeing him once a week is hard, and you can't help thinking is he using me. Can someone help!!!!
2006-06-07 02:42:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is easy! You obviously care for him otherwise you wouldn't miss him.
Its his job to be away its not choice - he isn't roaming around the streets or in bars picking up other women he is at work.
I doubt very much that he is using you - but if you are serious about this relationship get used to not seeing him sometimes, there are some books available that you could read about life with a man in the army.
If the relationship does take the next steps then you could end up married to him and in which case you would probably be in army housing with him and would see him every day unless he is on exercise or operations away.
Good luck - it isn't that bad my husband is in the army!
2006-06-07 02:59:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
If you have to ask this question then i can't help wondering if you like him enough. I only see my partner at the weekends, and sometimes not every weekend because we live far away from each other and we both have children to think of. I miss him like crazy when we're not together, but when we do see each other everything is right with the world. However, we do have plans to move in together at some point. I'm not sure I could put up with this indefinitely.If he treats you like a princess then it doesn't sound like he's using you. You could try asking him where he thinks the relationship is going.Hope you can work things out!Good luck!
2006-06-07 11:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by janey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buddy, you shud understand life & also try to understand each other.
He is having a gud job rather than just roaming around with you.
Its all money that matter in the end part becoz all things in the world needs money & this person is working hard for that.
If you both are really in love, u shud not have felt like that..
mAy be in this case your mind is on the verge os slipping.
2006-06-07 09:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your heart girl if you feel you doing the right thing so be it love can be hard ,but who knows at the end of the day this might be the one weigh up all the options be open with him and let him know how you feel ,then weigh the situation,anyway hes in the army isnt he not running around with other irls,and doesnt he spend the free time he has with you?
2006-06-07 10:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by tiff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your relationship is tough. It is up to you whether you think that you have got something worth fighting for, to me it sounds like you do.
I don't think that he is using you, but i do think he is very involved in his career. May be you should copy his example and get more invloved in your career to take your mind off things. Don't pester the poor guy to leave the army, it's what he does. If you don't like it leave him, if you can live with it, then stay. It's your call.
2006-06-07 09:48:12 · answer #5 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my case, its worse. he's in the other part of a country, which is about 6 hours drive from my place. i only see him once every 2 or 3 months. you are considered lucky bcoz u see him every weekend. i dont think he is using you. if he is, then he wouldnt see you at all, would he? i would feel bored if i see my bf every day. hope it helps.
2006-06-07 09:51:49 · answer #6 · answered by anise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes in the army you should respect the job he does at least you see him once a week theres people with partners still in the middle east who havent seen each other for months.
2006-06-07 09:49:21 · answer #7 · answered by tra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah why would you want to stay with someone who has high moral fiber and is willing to die for a country full of people in which aren't even willing to help themselves.
Those are the guys you just want to dismiss.
(good thing your not just thinking about yourself!)(oh, by the way I am being sarcastic!)
2006-06-07 10:08:26 · answer #8 · answered by "THE BEAST" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only see my girlfriend once a week. It is just something you have to get used to if you like him enough.
2006-06-07 09:45:51 · answer #9 · answered by mattd550 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if you love him or not. If you love him, stay with him and use the time you do spend together constructively. If not, then he might not be the one for you. You might find yourself looking around for someone else, if this happens, you will have to call it off with him. x
2006-06-07 09:55:12 · answer #10 · answered by nicktheo2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋