I just broke up with some one I love so much. I will never talk to him again. The reason why is, last night, he threatened to kill me abd I thought he was really going to. The whole time, I was crying which just made him more mad. He started to slap me on the face until I bled from the nose but I was so scared for my life that I didnt even feel anything until after. Thankfully, he left before he lost completely lost his temper but I was so hurt by then because he had already done so many things to me. I need help please. I love him, he wants me to come back but I dont know. I really thought I was gonna die last night. It was the scariest thing I have ever experience.
2006-06-07 01:57:14 · 6 answers · asked by Hello2u 1 in News & Events ➔ Other - News & Events
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2006-06-07 02:07:01 · update #1
If he slapped you in the face until you got a nose bleed, that's assault. He has broken the law. I would notify the police if I were you. It might not be a bad idea to have a restraining order place on him as well. The guy obviously has some anger management issues and violent tendencies. You do NOT want to continue to be involved with someone like that. He has physically and emotionally abused you, and apparently felt he was justified in doing so. There is nothing you will ever be able to do to "save" him or help him change. Just get away and stay away, and make sure to inform the proper authorities, or at least a few concerned adults, of the assault. Don't answer the phone if he calls, and have an adult friend explain to him that you do not wish to be approached by him ever again. If he insists on approaching you against your will, call the police.
I'm not joking. That kind of violence has to be taken seriously. If you don't draw attention to it now, his pattern of abuse will only get worse. And for the next woman he gets mad at, it might not be so simple a matter as just a nose bleed.
2006-06-07 02:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by magistra_linguae 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls are not born into this world to be beaten... by anyone. Men who do so deserve no respect at all let alone love.
You are a kind soul and should not have to suffer any mental anguish or physical pain from someone who abuses you. It would be better to take the time to seriously consider the relationship however much you love him.
To me a girl's heart is made of glass - once shattered, impossible to piece back again - it will never be the same ever. You deserve someone kind who can care and protect you, not cause you pain. Because you are a girl.
2006-06-07 09:19:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up with a guy cause of these kind of actions, no one would blame you. No guy has the right to violently hit and abuse you. If he says that his sorry, wants you back or will "never do it again", if he has said that before and then doesn't keep that promise, well his not worth staying with. In Australia (where I am) there has been a champain for violence against women. Love doesn't involve hitting and abusing. There is no use wasting love on someone that will hit you, for whatever reason. You should not have to tolerant this any more, get your parents behind you, local authorities. Stand up for yourself with people supporting you, you don't have to put up with abuse.
It's not right and it's not on. Goodluck
2006-06-08 00:32:17 · answer #3 · answered by Laura G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go back honey, you deserve someone that does not hurt you and that you feel safe with. I know that it will be hard because although you love him he hurts you. You need to talk to someone about what has happened like e trusted friend or counselor.
No one should have to be in a relationship that causes them physical or emotional pain. He is in the wrong and you have to be strong. You would not want to end up as one of the people on the news, with their family and friends talking about how they cannot believe John would ever hurt such a sweet person. Please, for your own good stay away and find someone who really loves you and treats you with the respect you deserve.
2006-06-07 09:02:46 · answer #4 · answered by HK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for gods sake just leave him alone. It may hurt, but what hurts more, leaving an abuseive man or "gettin yo' *** beat"? He'll say he will never do it again, but its ot true. Once an abuser, always an abuser. If you arent married or have any kids by this jack ***, just let it go. Counseling is another option (for the both of you), but I only recommend that if ur married or have kids or sumthin. If hes just a boyfriend, tell him to beat it and never look back!
2006-06-07 09:13:07 · answer #5 · answered by Tracy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy obviously has some serious issues in his head. What you saw last night is they way you will be treated as a matter of routine if you stay with him. Do you want to endure these beatings your entire life? I think not. Get away from him and stay away. You got off easy so don't push your luck.
2006-06-07 09:11:32 · answer #6 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋