I am suppost to move in with my guy in two weeks and he has just told his sons. They clearly do not accept me moveing in reason is his 11 year old ruined a poem i wrote for him. And instead of talking it out with him he yelled at him telling him he is going to accept he has every right to be happy. Well i sat and just listened on the phone and told him he should not of yelled at his son. And that maybe moveing in was not a good idea. I am a single mom and my two girls are very stable and his sons clearly show signs they are not. And my guy was up and down saying he was going to write off his kids because clearly they do not want him to be happy and i said you cannot do that. And then he said he was getting rid of the dog. And said i was trying to run away from him by saying maybe it was best i did not move in with him because i feel it is way to up and down for myself and my 8 10 year old girls.
2006-06-07 01:24:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think that you seee the situation correctly.
This is not a stable situation and would not be enjoyable.
I could really hurt your kids to through them into this situation.
2006-06-07 01:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even think of moving in with a guy like this? He is thinking with the wrong head and only thinking of himself. Do you love him? It doesn't sound like there is love on either side, maybe it is just convenient for the both of you. I would not want this man to be a father to my children. Sounds as if he has been
having a hard time with his sons and he thinks that getting them a new Mommy will be a big help. Wait until he can get things under control, but if it were me, I would run the other way and not even look back. There are good men out there, don't just take the first one that comes by.
2006-06-07 01:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by sally t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you might be right. YOu need to slow down and let things progress slowly. I don't think you need to move in with this guy.
2006-06-07 01:27:47 · answer #3 · answered by mye77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a little bipolar huh???????? dont move in with him..
2006-06-07 01:35:40 · answer #4 · answered by luvmadukes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋