I still like him but my self tells me to go with another dude...not him!..but i still want to be with him. What i do?
2006-06-07 01:17:30 · 13 answers · asked by grizzly_bear112 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i am with this dude but not my ex. im to sure if i want to stay or live him? i still like my ex. wat i do?
2006-06-07 01:21:04 · update #1
Time. That's the only way to get over him. It sounds so easy, but it isn't. Each day that passes...each month....you will think about him less and less. Until then, try to busy yourself this summer.
2006-06-07 01:20:03 · answer #1 · answered by NYCchic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly want to get over him. You have make that decision your self. Ask your self this question. Why did we break up? If everything you think is negative then its time to let go. Make sure that you don't have any ties to bring you back. Its going to be hard; depending on how long you were together. Try calling your friends when you are thinking about him or feel like calling him. try to avoid him as much as possible. Go out even if you don't feel like it. If you have a good friend tell her that you need her support so that she can show you a good time. A real good friend will know what will make you happy. Keep you self busy. And in time you can brush you shoulder off.
2006-06-07 01:50:24 · answer #2 · answered by Scarlett J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look therz a list me n ma frenz have made
its called
How to recover from a break-up:
1>> buy some 2-3 pieces of clothing’s 4 yur self
2>>>Buy high heel’d sandals… hot-'n'-eye-catchin.. (at least 3 inches high)
3>>>Get a new haircut. Find an extremely outrageous beauty parlor or hair-salon, have some high lights(hot-'n'-decent) .. get a makeover.. look lik the most sexiest of yourself… yu have ever seen.(girl yu ‘ve already started to feel better-hot-'n'-sexy) .. so that next time wen yor ex see’s yu ,hez gonna see, an extremely NEW YOU, that he can know dat he is an assole, 'n' yu ar so so beautii… 'n' he lost yu now, at yu wer his someday 'n' he did not know yor worth 'n' now .he shul be regretful.. indeed!
4>>>Call a female friend so that you can talk about how much you miss your ex, and this friend can remind you of all the times he pissed you off, admitting that she never thought that he was nice or attractive, that you could do so much better, that he was cheap, that he had a strange smell,
et cetera. This step is best accomplished with a mediocre friend as opposed to a best friend, in case boyfriend reconciliation.
5>>>Call male friends so that you can be reminded of how desirable you are. Do not actually fool around with these friends. You’ll need them around for several months following your breakup.
6>>>go out wid yor female fren for a movie/pizza/coffee or any other happening place in d city, that yu can again feel d world full of tarts ,that yu can feel beauitiful,'n' desirable. Obviously after a makeover yur lookin lik doll.
7>>>buy a box of tremendously expensive chocolates filed with different types of dry-fruits, and eat the entire box.
2006-06-07 05:22:07 · answer #3 · answered by tanzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your instincts. If you want to go out with another guy then do it. To get over an ex, keep busy. Make arrangements to go out with friends. If you have mutual friends, find new ones. Do not stay in the house and dwell on things. Work, school, hobbies(exercise, dance is really good).
2006-06-07 01:23:00 · answer #4 · answered by Nora T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will take a while before you forget your ex especially when you get to know the new one better...there will always be comparison of things they do and do not do....We still long for our ex because he's not there...just like 1 of our family member, even though you quarrel everday, when they leave for a long time, there is always something about them that we miss...you will get over it in time...dont worry...
2006-06-07 01:34:06 · answer #5 · answered by bea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. you start now, mark it on your calendar, count 1 day, 2 days, 3 days, until a month, a year, years, and when have stopped counting, you are over him.
2006-06-07 01:19:21 · answer #6 · answered by austria_honeybunch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think of it this way, You might've dodged a bullet, and God has something better planned for you. Just keep telling yourself that.
2006-06-07 01:20:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could tell him ur srry or just get over him god will put u where u belong in a relalitship
2006-06-07 01:21:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely go out and start dating, that will help you get over him.
2006-06-07 01:20:37 · answer #9 · answered by RICARDO M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone that lacks all the wrong qualities that broke you two up then try again.
2006-06-07 01:21:44 · answer #10 · answered by josh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋