or is love really justified in being insatiable......................
details and as many answers as u can give. feel free to express your self.
2006-06-07 00:26:43 · 9 answers · asked by Cool Boyz 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
no, i don't think that love is a war field, it is not a battle, just a feeling, which is very pure an d above materializm, i think that if u learn to love, it is the first step to spiritualism, as it makes u stronger, makes u experience and feel like a human, emotions are incomplete without love. We all love some one, and to us the person means the world, in spite of him/her being quite defective in their own sense. Love is a very positive thing. We love and we continue to love-that is real love, which is not bound by the chains of time or distance or defference, love is a leveller. It gives equal status and right to every one. Their is no way u lose in love, If u have truly loved some one, and not been reciprocated, You are NOT a loser, any way, you have not lost but gained a lot of things. Yes, one never loses in love.
Yes, not every one can b e successful or victorious. If this is the case, then there'll be no one unsuccessful, we all can't get whatever we want always. Love doesn't need any justification, it just happens............
2006-06-07 00:34:15 · answer #1 · answered by i_m_kiinda_kind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never win in love because love is a losing game. no need for details. there are other things though where you can win and at the same time lose, fortunately love is not one of them...cos if it were people would want it for the winning at least. The bad thing tis, it is as perennial as the grass, desiderata, so I guess people will always fall in love although they will never win. The best thing you should do, if you wanna know, is not think of it from the standpoint of winning or losing.... why not think of it as natural as breathing, or growing grass, now its there, then its gone, and there again, some kind of the natural course of things...now you have it, then you dont, then you have it again....no loss, no win, because what you dont have you will have some time again and what you have, you will not have after some time, only to have it again, and then not have it again???messy ha..
2006-06-07 00:38:37 · answer #2 · answered by austria_honeybunch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well What is there to lose or win in LOVE.
Love is of different type. What you call mothers LOVE to her child. Same way love of an animal to its offsprings.
But what you are referring to is the so called physical attraction of one human being to another either of same sex or different.
The boy gets attracted at looking at the breasts , naval, eyes, etc of a girl or vice versa.Given sufficient time even this loves wears off after some time. For some it may last few years at best.
Slowly the attraction wanes away.This is in case where love succeeds.
Where it fails either because of initial misplaced love, infatuation,
or any other misunderstanding etc it fails immediately.
Of course when there is a deep love which never succeeded into any permanent relationship or not even temperory relationship but remained in the hearts of two souls IT REMAINS GREEN FOR EVER.WE LIVE IN FOND MEMORIES BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES. THATS PURE DISTILLED LOVE.
2006-06-07 00:38:30 · answer #3 · answered by THATHA75 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, one never loses in love -- they can become hurt or disillusioned, but never lose. I say this because when you are in love you learn and grow as an individual and as a couple. You experience things that you may not have if you were a single person. And if the relationship ends you will grow in character and discover strengths that you never knew you had.
So, in short, without love we would never grow as individuals and experience all the things we do when we are in love AND when we are dumped. If love allows us this knowledge and strength how can it ever be a loss.
2006-06-07 00:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my dazzling pal in a automobile coincidence over two decades in the past. no longer an afternoon is going with out wondering about her and lacking her. She left 3 childrens, one became in straightforward words 8 months. people used to assert "each and every thing takes position for a reason". properly the following it really is, over two decades later and that i nevertheless have not discovered what that reason is.
2016-12-06 11:14:07 · answer #5 · answered by daddow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion.
People fall in, and they can fall out, and back in again, and back out. With different people, with the same person. Whatever.
Which is why I've always been more attracted to the animalistic relationship. You know, less about love. More about companionship.
2006-06-07 00:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by Karmically Screwed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you can lose. It's called divorce. Especially if your ex has a better lawyer. Sorry to bring reality into your philosophical question.
2006-06-07 00:32:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only think of wining and you will become that whcih you focus on.- Einstein.
2006-06-07 02:08:04 · answer #8 · answered by smile4763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah sometimes you lose your virginity.
2006-06-07 01:42:24 · answer #9 · answered by withallduerespect42 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋