my boyfriend says he loves me but i dont like what he does.he always wants to know where am what am doing and with who, then calls to confirm if am really there.then reads all my messages and questions me ,on every man name.escorts to parties and everywhre.then keeps staring at me and telling me how beautiful am.is it normal or he is obsessed,am very tired what do i do
2006-06-07 00:19:54 · 8 answers · asked by natuj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, it isn't normal. He's controlling you. If you were to stay in a long term relationship with him eventually he'd probably become physically abusive. If you think you're tired now, and you stay with him, you will be exhausted. He will kill your spirit and no one has the right to do that to anyone. I hope for your sake you leave him. Good luck.
2006-06-07 00:34:02 · answer #1 · answered by fungirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He loves u so much to the extinct that he is afraid that he would lose u or u may cheat on him . he is obsessed of u which is not good but look at the bright side he’s madly in love with u.
What to do is ur choice every person differs than the other and deciding if u want him or not is as i said ur choice.
2006-06-07 08:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by Factor X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is short. If u r already tired of the relationship, how long and what all u want to go through with him b4 u decide to LIVE ur life!
Often we men thrust our insecurities on others. Do you know if he doesn't see himself in the guys who leer at other women...
2006-06-07 07:33:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was going thru the same thing. only difference was he could do all that with me, but i could not ? him on ne thing. and he would always be out, around girls, lying to me, etc. if he is ?ing u like this but not going out or lying to you, then its just bc he is jealous and does not want to loose you. consider urself lucky, bc like in my shoes , i didnt have that. only ppl who want to go out and cheat and hurt me, deliberately KNOWING they would too. but gf and bf should do stuff TOGETHER too, remember.
2006-06-07 08:12:13 · answer #4 · answered by Kasey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is worried that you will leave him, just tell him you will always be loyal to him and would never think of cheating.
2006-06-07 07:23:38 · answer #5 · answered by Pandora Tommorow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he is an obssesd boyfriend.and you can't marry him if he don't trust you.
2006-06-07 07:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by dude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not normal. Dump him.
2006-06-07 07:29:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him
2006-06-07 07:22:44 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋