with the amount of spouse visa s being applied for and then marriages breaking down afterwards once complete, how can one know if theres is real?.....people can fake emotions such as love, can create children, and live for years as if it is real then leave suddenly.......should we just trust our hearts and hope that we dont fall victim to such cruel fraud?
2006-06-06 23:33:37 · 9 answers · asked by simbawifey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
try staying away from your love one...then you will know weather is necessary for visa or not
2006-06-06 23:38:18 · answer #1 · answered by rubzebred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some are and some are not. One thing you and many probably haven't really thought about. The culture where they were born and raised is very different and no matter what they say that culture will not leave them. If you haven't spent a long time trying to understand how life is for her then you will not know if it is real or not for a long time. If you run out of money and ask her to support you for a while until you get on your feet you may just find out very fast. What you think love is is not what they think it is. No love is not defined the same all over the world. Yes many gals just marry to get the visa and after getting their citizenship paters they are gone. This is not all but it is difficult to know who will do this. I have seen many loose everything they had.
...All that said I will not say to marry her or not. I don't know her so she may be an excellent choice. They are here and I am living with one. The one in this house does not need me to support her. She has more income than the average here and in fact would be considered wealthy if they knew how much she has. Also she is not a very young uneducated girl. Good ones are here so I do hope this one is for you.
2006-06-07 00:01:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This kind of marriage happen everywhere in the world. Some say I am biased because I am from Singapore and the girls that man married are from Vietman, China, Taiwan and Thailand. Every 10 marriages 4 will leave their husband after getting a PR. But of course 6 are happily married which I am happy for them. But with a ratio of 4:6 out of ten, is definitely very high. I have know of some friends that pay agency S$10,000/- to bring them to Vietnam, China or Thailand to look for wifes although there is definitely communication problem, but they don't mind because they say Singapore girls are too independent and materialistic, wait till their alien wife gets her visa, we shall witness who is materialistic.
2006-06-07 00:30:16 · answer #3 · answered by simple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a pre-nupt that says if he leaves you within 4 years he will forfeit a certain sum of money. Or you could go to his country and just live with him (people do even in Asian countries) and find out how he lives and how he treats you. It shouldn't take too long to see any big cracks in the relationship if there are any. Make sure that you can get back home if things go bad though. Get a trusted friend to keep a return ticket (or the money for it) for you. Good luck.
2006-06-07 02:00:08 · answer #4 · answered by survivor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 04:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by alia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something in your heart is making you question him/her. Maybe your subconscious is picking up on something that your conscious doesn't want to see?
Really think about when and where you are when these thoughts occur to you.
This is really hard, because, yes, there are some cold SOB's out there, but sometimes it's simply a matter of culture, ie, people express things differently, but it doesn't mean they are insincere.
If your question is rhetorical (and not with a specific person in mind), then yes, you have to be careful, but don't let it keep you from going out with people of other cultures just out of fear! Go with it, keep your head, but give him/her a chance! You never know, they could be the love of your life. Life's nothing if you don't take a few chances.
2006-06-06 23:40:33 · answer #6 · answered by alter_tygo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends who the visa is for. If its a women coming over then thats fine but if it is a bloke then thats fraud. AS soon as the guys leave their country they go mad and leave their wifes. I know some people who this has happened. I married my wife who is from India but I got to know her for a few months and lived in india for 3 months b4 doing marriage. She is brill and it worked out well for us.
2006-06-06 23:41:17 · answer #7 · answered by VIRDS 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have one suggestion - try make him to put as much money in u as possible.buy u expensive stuff, buy a house on your name, car on your name. in that case even if he was having in mind to use u for visa maybe he will regret about spent money. or even if he leaves u afterwards who cares? u got money and a house. otherwise u can not check whetehr he really loves u or just wants to use u.
2006-06-06 23:51:57 · answer #8 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your marriage should be genuine if you have moved away and they follow and need a visa im sure you will be granted it....im sure that youll still be together when they get there if your love is so strong then it will work
2006-06-07 01:49:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋