i live in Egypt , married for 29 yrs , wife took assignment to france for 3 years and live there , while i live with children home . as moslem i can marry another but i donot want to be unfair. i have passionand sexual needs which get me up by night .
2006-06-06 21:37:51 · 23 answers · asked by gusau1946 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we all have sexualy needs but i feel its wrong marrying another woman have flings go out for dates but i feel this cultures demorilises woman.
2006-06-06 21:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are allowed by law to be able to marry another in your country and your religion, I don't see why there would be a problem with dating other people and possibly marry them, if your wife moved 3 years ago, I would say you suffered enough, time to live again. Go out and have fun.
2006-06-06 21:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by tennessee_cherokee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what if you're moslem, does that not make you a normal human being who should live with some morals? would you be happy if she had sexual needs and married someone in france for 2 years? or even worse, fulfilled her sexual needs with a few men and then came back to you? she's a moslem.... but you wouldn't take her back then, would you?
use your hands and make yourself happy....
2006-06-06 21:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely you must have discussed this before she went. Have you tried talking to her about how you feel? Perhaps you can meet one another half way. It seems a bit hard on her if you both agreed she go for the sake of earning money to keep the family. I think you need to to look at why you married her in the first place. Talk it over.
2006-06-13 08:30:38 · answer #4 · answered by xbkw46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True, Islam allows a man to have more than one wife. But it must be done for the right reasons (simply satisfying your lust is not one of them!) and should take into consideration the following verse from the Quran:
"And among His Signs is this: that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquillity with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts): verily in that are Signs for those who reflect". (030.021)
If, by taking another wife, you cannot "dwell in tranquility" with your present wife, then you should not marry another.
Discuss with your wife first. Make sure she has no objections and be sure that you have valid reasons to take a second wife.
2006-06-06 22:18:50 · answer #5 · answered by rempuh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Muslim personal law permits up to 4 wives at a time.You can use the facilities of triple talak and remarriage after 3 years.
2006-06-06 22:00:17 · answer #6 · answered by leowin1948 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have thought about your sexual needs before she left. I know that as a Muslim you can marry again but at least have the decency to ask her and if she agrees, then OK. If she doesn't then you need to fast more until she gets back
2006-06-07 05:42:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you decide to marry another, talk to your wife. It is clear you love her and want only her. She needs to be there with you and the children.
2006-06-06 21:47:52 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is way to important to ask the people on here
Can you explain to you wife that have sexual needs. Ask her can you marry another. I have no insight into muslim customs You are best to ask maybe at the Mosque
2006-06-06 21:44:50 · answer #9 · answered by loveable_aussie_rogue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-14 07:44:12 · answer #10 · answered by cathell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her you can con troll your self to sleep with another one.i am moslem too(from iran)i think its not good to sleep with another woman.but if u dont have sence about your wife u can find your favorit girl friend and have a good time sex and sleep with her.but do it private.your children shouldnt know this because they learn and its so bad!
2006-06-06 23:16:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋