She asked me to move in with her, but I said no divorce, no way.
I still have some morals. She was going to get a divorce, then backed out. Later she cheated because I would not commit.
2006-06-06 21:11:36 · 9 answers · asked by alysonhell 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she told you she cheated cause you woulnt commit??yeah, ok.she is the one that cant commit or she would have tken steps towards a divorce.there is a reason she is content to be married but separated...she can use that as an excuse not to fully be in a real relationship.she cheated because she wanted to, and she has a problem on several different levels...do you want a nut case who doesnt want to fully be yours?? dump the chick and move on, i mean who really wants to deal with those kinds of issues...everyday you spend with her is one less day you have to find your true love.
2006-06-06 21:20:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know a woman in a similar situation. Me. With me it is a financial issue definetely not a wanting to have it both ways issue. Make sure you know all the facts sweetie. If it is a legit problem like that and you truely care for this person you are not compromising your ethics at all. It can be worked through together if you care enough to make it work. BUT if she is playing games with both of you and then blaming you for the fact that she cheated, RUN. FAST and FAR. Too many other good people out there to deal with dumb stuff. Just gotta look a bit longer, that's all. Good luck!
2006-06-06 21:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much money is she getting from the previous husband? My friend, I would strongly suggest that you leave this person. Sounds to me that she is not to be trusted in any way.
2006-06-06 21:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with answer # 1.
2006-06-06 21:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by kriend 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a real woman shes a joke
2006-06-06 21:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by melikajns@yahoo.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't love you and has no respect for you.
drop the dead weight.
2006-06-08 21:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by gone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i would move in, but that's all i'm gonna do.
2006-06-06 21:17:35 · answer #7 · answered by DaNewGuy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know the answer to this anyway.
2006-06-06 23:09:20 · answer #8 · answered by chasing rainbow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU REVIEW YOUR QUESTION, YOU'LL SEE YOUR ANSWER!
2006-06-06 21:15:32 · answer #9 · answered by KEEPEROFTHEGATE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋