I get to know this girl from work and she's nice and cheerful... she even treat others like her brother and sister... she's so damn nice.. but what bothers her now is that... her body size... she has tried all ways by injection, taking pills and even some other diet foods and supplements... but still, she can't lose her weight... and worse of all is that, she's alwayz being rejected by guys which they themselve know that they have feelings for her... Only that they can't quite accept her body size...Is it that hard for guys to accept a girl that is so nice and helpful (where you can't find this kind elsewhere) just because of the body size? Well, Anybody out there that wants to befriends with her... I mean get to know her and then decide whether you can accept her or not... Isn't that, the most important thing how a girl characteristic is? Hoping to find a guy for her which won't complain her because of her body size... most important is how she treat you guys right?
2006-06-06 21:06:42 · 13 answers · asked by my_hollium 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Has she tried joining a BBW club? Big, Beautiful Women is a nationwide network of local clubs which include both the larger ladies AND men who specifically are attracted to them. Unless she has health concerns or personal desires to lose the weight, she might find a gentleman who really, really ascribes to the "bigger is better" theory, and that adoration could help her to feel better about herself all-around.
2006-06-19 10:23:49 · answer #1 · answered by bigheadbride 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend has a very beautiful personality. For the sake of her health (not for finding a guy), try to let her know that to do exercises regularly instead of spending money on diet pills or injections. After having a healthy body with her charming personality, guys will approach her eventually.
2006-06-07 04:35:17 · answer #2 · answered by smurf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to www.provida.com I am doing the six week body make over and I love it. I have seen so much of a differance that it has really helped me! I feel better about who I am, and I lvoe ME for a chage.
Just have her check it out. Once she gets going on the plan nothing can stop her. Good luck, things will work out!
2006-06-20 16:17:22 · answer #3 · answered by cunszusz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. Love should not unconditional even with size. but love is still can't be pushed. we can not push somebody to love or hate somebody. it comes from hearts.
Please tell her do not frustrated with that, just achieve what she is...besides..she have to be grate full that she is most prettier than many slim girls, she have inner beauty that is most important and very hard to find.
Hope that she will find someone who loves her just the way she is.
I have seen many "huge" woman have been married and loved by her husband. It is only about time to find her true love.
Good luck.
2006-06-21 04:31:13 · answer #4 · answered by Fie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gastric bypass.
anyway, anyonw who wants to loose weight can do so, but that person has to be dedicated to it. Starting and stopping wouldnot help any.
Looks are always the last thing i think about in a woman, even though it's the first thing you see. Attitude is what counts in my book.
2006-06-07 04:12:14 · answer #5 · answered by DaNewGuy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DONT KNOW WHAT THIS GIRL IS LIKE ALL I CAN SAY IS I WOULDNT JUDGE HER UNLESS I GOT TO KNOW HER WELL AND I DONT THINK THAT GUYS SHOULD JUDGE HER EITHER UNLESS THEY KNOW THE PERSON I DONT THINK THATS FAIR. AS FOR DIETING I HAVE TRIED EVERYTHING MYSELF AND I KNOW HOW SHE FEELS. ALL SHE HAS TO DO IS BE HERSELF AND THE BOYS WILL EVENTUALLY COME TO ACCEPT HER AS SHE IS IF THEY DONT THEN THEY ARE NOT HER FRIENDS SHE SHOULDNT WORRY ABOUT HER BODY SIZE BEING HERSELF IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING BEING CONFIDNET ABOUT THE WAY YOU FEEL ABOUT YOURSELF IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING AND IF GUYS DONT WANT TO DATE YOU THEN YOU SHOULDNT WORRY ABOUT IT BECAUSE YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE EVENTUALLY THAT WILL ACCEPT YOU AS YOU ARE NAD
2006-06-20 20:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by nadereh p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the mind & soul accept her as she is, thats just it.
I was lean& tall and my wife short & fat, we`ve had a love marriage.And after 33 years we are still very happy.
Proof enough?
2006-06-21 03:47:29 · answer #7 · answered by bharat b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SEEMS CLEAR BY YOUR RAMBLING THAT YOUR MAKING STUFF UP OR YOUR VERY YOUNG. OPEN A MAGAZINE,TURN ON THE T.V. PEOPLE WANT healthy. IF YOU WANNA REALLY HELP,SIGN OFF AND GO FOR A WALK.
2006-06-07 04:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by KEEPEROFTHEGATE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to check her thyroid.....some people can't loose the weight because of thier thyroid gland, i am only saying it to make sure she is healthy
2006-06-15 07:07:26 · answer #9 · answered by Chocolate_Bunny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I hope she also gets her "Shallow Hal"(movie)
It really is not what is outside but what is inside!!!!!
2006-06-07 04:11:05 · answer #10 · answered by kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋