2006-06-06 20:27:09 · 18 answers · asked by jeremy_davis86 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yeah i agree... let her take all the control...tell her that whatever she wants you will do....tell her to guide your head with her hands where she wants....all you will do is start at her lips and her neck...from there tell her it's all up to her....virgins get turned on easy but get turned off even easier..so becareful
2006-06-20 14:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by oskerr_m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here are a few things to do since she is a virgin make in as relaxing as possible light candles play some slow music try dancing with her to relax her and get her mind off of it you have to make sure she is relaxed so kiss her make out and most important four play and alot just to make sure she is relaxing and getting the feel for it then you need to use some Ky jelly not the warming stuff that maybe to hot for her you need to use the KY on you and her both don't force it all in at once move just the head in and out first till she loosens up a little then slowly, slowly, I mean slowly easy a little more in every few seconds. Most important make sure she is relaxed and try letting her know how much you care for her, I hope you do care for her cause this is a big moment for her to share with you.Just take your time with her. Good luck I hope I helped.
2006-06-20 09:07:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her take charge i.e. when, how, where, etc. It's gonna be painful no matter what. It will also feel exciting but strange for her b/c she will have never felt anything like it before. To be honest, don't have high expectations of the moment. As long as you are appreciative and tender in your approach, she want to do it again. Maybe within minutes.
2006-06-20 08:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, there is no way it can be less painful unless you are not going to have sex at all! What's wrong with you not being a virgin and she being one? I don't get it. You wanna have sex with her, you guys need to talk about these things. Have sex because you like/love her, and not for any other reason.
2006-06-20 08:19:17 · answer #4 · answered by sassy_sexy_honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when shes ready dont force her then she will hate it. I no cause im still a virgin and im going to be one until im married with the right guy.
2006-06-20 06:48:10 · answer #5 · answered by mafia chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep her a VIRGIN until you marry!!! This would be the best advice I could give you!
2006-06-20 10:47:13 · answer #6 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slow with her tell her that you will take your time and when it hurt for her to tell you to stop and when to start just take it slow with her kiss her on the neck play with her puss finger her if you want
2006-06-20 12:19:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to hurt no matter what you do just try and be gentle and let her tell you when to stop and go
2006-06-06 20:48:30 · answer #8 · answered by Imogen228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start real slow, and if she hesitates, wait for another time. Use foreplay first to arouse her, that helps penetration
2006-06-06 20:33:44 · answer #9 · answered by Scheherazade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she want this? Consider her before you consider this kind of step. Alot of things will change and alot of things can go wrong.
2006-06-20 15:05:18 · answer #10 · answered by wrkingforit 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋