theres this guy that i was with for 2yrs and we broke up because he said i was cheating on him but i really wasnt. then he asked me back out 2 months later he asked me back out and i said yes. but he doesnt want n.e. body to know that we are 2gether supposibly because he doesnt want n.e. body to tell him stuff.what should i do?should i be with him or not.
2006-06-06 19:40:40 · 24 answers · asked by Miss Varsity =] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Be with him, but tell him that you won't keep it a secret!!!!
Make a compromise, to not believe anything other people tell you or him and if you feel uncertain to go and talk to him or he to you and you must be honest with him and he must be honest with you!!!!
It worked for me!!Every time someone told my boyfriend something and he feels uncertain about it he would come to me and ask me, he accepts that I am honest with him and I trust him to be honest as well, that alone helped my relationship allot cause trust is very important to me!!!!!
Enjoy your day and I hope that you and your bf can work things out!!!!!
2006-06-06 20:15:09 · answer #1 · answered by kelly 3 · 6⤊ 3⤋
Most often, People who acuse their significant other of cheating without evidence or reason are usually the cheaters. If he doesn't want anyone to know you are together, he may have some other girl he is also playing. I would steer clear of this guy darlin. Plus if he really wants to be with you, and respects you, wouldn't he be proud that you are together? There is no honest guy that would keep something like that a secret. If he is willing to keep you on the DL, what else is he hiding?
2006-06-06 19:46:43 · answer #2 · answered by Passionately Vulnerable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend, he does not love you. He accused you of doing something, because he was too much of a wimp to admit that he lost interest in you. The fact that he wants to keep you a secret indicates that he is using you. Evidently, he is involved with someone.Yet he still thinks that you are so desperate that you will compromise everything just for his attention. No, do not give him the satisfaction of going out with him one more time. Leave his sorry a$$ alone.
2006-06-06 19:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion id say no because as i guy i think i know what hes doing. he accused you of cheating because he wanted out of the relationship. once he got what he wanted he realized it wasnt the best so now he wants you back but he doesnt want anyone to know cause hes ashamed of his mistake id say dump the loser find a guy whos proud to be with you and some one that will treat you right
2006-06-06 19:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by CT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,,I think he accused you because he was doing it & now doesnt want her to know that he is back with you or he is just trying to satisfy you so you wont find out about the other girrl.I could be wrong but Id follow my instincts,,they are usually right if not always.
2006-06-06 19:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy need to grow-up. He has trust issues. By him wanting to keep the relationship a secret suggest that there is probably another female in the picture somewhere..
2006-06-06 19:45:56 · answer #6 · answered by aintlovegrand78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally people who accuse their S.O. of cheating on them with no evidence are either cheaters, or abusers. The fact that he doesn't want anyone to know tells me. He doesn't want the fact that you and he are back together to get back his other woman. Stay the hell away from him, and find someone who treats you decently.
2006-06-06 20:16:08 · answer #7 · answered by Sabersquirrel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, who cares about rumours? let them talk, let the people feast on the gossip until they are fat and be bored of you guys being back together again. cuz you certainly can't please everbody on this planet. And if your guy gives you another shot cuz he decided to trust you, sure, take up that second chance and really implant it in his head that he is the only man for you (for now haha). Make sure you eliminate any action of distrust you do that he may find out (e.g sneaking out with guy friends, nite clubs ect)
2006-06-06 19:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by Ally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO I AINT GOD OR NOBODY BUT I THINK YOU SHOULD NOT GO OUT WITH HIM I HAVE A EX LIKE THAT AND HE DISRESPECT FOR 3 YEARS AND DIDN'T EVEN WANT ME TO MEET HIS PARNETS AND WHEN I DID SEE HIS FATHER AND FRIENDS HE TOLD THEM THAT I WAS SOMEBODY NAME ASHELY FROM HIS SCHOOL AND MY NAME IS APRIL BUT YOU ARE GROWN CANT NOBODY MAKE YOU DO SOMETHING KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND PRAY LEAVE HIM
THIS IS 2006 IT'S MORE FISH IN DA SEA HOLLA
2006-06-06 19:47:47 · answer #9 · answered by CUP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm looks like he is ashamed of you in public..
i think u need to dump this guy so hard that he doesnt know what hit him.lose him...how can u live with someone who is ashamed of you??
2006-06-06 19:44:51 · answer #10 · answered by gentle_cute_man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋