There's this guy....he's one of my bestfriends. I care about him...ALOT! But, he's 19 & i'm 15. We're starting to fall in love....like, seriously. I don't know what to do. I feel like i'm going insane! He's my everything right now! And...it's stressing him out too. All the crap from everyone else is really getting annoying. We want to be together more then anything! What do we do? PLEASE HELP!
2006-06-06 19:31:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
So he knows how you feel about him right? Insanity is definetely the first case in the beginning of any relationship. Its so normal. The age thing isn't too big of a deal but you are still in High school. Hanging out with the older crowd could push you in ways you're not ready to be pushed. And I would tell everyone else to back off and just let the two of you figure things out. Just make sure he wants to be with you for the right reasons. Best friends in love can be very great but also very difficult, only because if things don't work out then the friendship may falter also. Be careful but follow your heart! Good luck!
2006-06-06 19:43:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
You won't understand this now, and you will do what you want anyhow, but here goes.
Age difference doesn't mean sh*t, but there is a huge difference between (15 and 19) and (23 and 27). He should know this whether you do or not. But let us say you are mature for your age, and you think more lucidly and rationally than other young teens your age, when you say 'He's my everything' and 'more than anything' it only proves that the annoying crap your being fed is for your own good.
What do you do? Be friends. Become friends. After all, the words 'boy', 'girl', and 'best', are only adjectives describing the root, the noun, the 'friend'. And remember, the shining armor doesn't make the knight.
I hope this answer just changed a life. Peace.
2006-06-07 02:56:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 years is nothing, stop worrying. Anyway, why would you want a guy your own age? 15 year old boys are nothing but a pain in the butt, they ususally have a mental age of 7
2006-06-07 02:56:37 · answer #3 · answered by Scheherazade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 years i seriously nothing, there's 3 years between me and my partner and there's nothing wrong with that at all, what matters is your feelings for eachother, no-one else should be involved. Do what you both feel you want then you will have no regrets. Good Luck
2006-06-07 02:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by Amy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not wait awhile.......like maybe 3 more years. You are not considered to be a consenting adult.
Normally 4 years difference is not a big deal......but in your case it is, because you are a minor.
2006-06-07 02:38:59 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him, an age difference shouldn't make a difference. I mean... I'm 13 and i like this 16 year old guy. and he already graduated high school and i'm just in 7th grade! so go for it!
2006-06-07 02:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by The Anti-Ego 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know girls r 5 yrs mature than guys naturally.that's y our parents had got married with that age gap.so it is really good 4 u go ahead!
2006-06-07 02:39:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Falling in love is fine, falling in to bed may have from legal problems, you are a minor, he is not.
2006-06-07 02:40:01 · answer #8 · answered by anvilsandinkstudios 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 years difference is nothing. Go ahead.
2006-06-07 02:34:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very normal up to 20 years older is better
2006-06-07 02:57:26 · answer #10 · answered by Innocent C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋